Want ONLY MEN to answer this...
Would you guys ever prefer marrying someone you found through dating sites. Or are dating sites just for fun sake.
At what point do guys decide to get serious about a girl, when met through dating sites?
Basically trying to understand what is it that men truly want? What criterias do guys look at when deciding for a life partner - salary, skin colour, caste, religion, designation, height, family assets (houses, cars) - how much does these things value? Any other criteria?
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Most men want someone who's simple, nurturer, emotionally stable person with a cleaner past and a non-party/wild girl. If you're guy wants you to only be a wild girl, good chances he ain't serious
Noted. These are some good indicators. But question is if you find someone like this on dating sites, would you consider marrying her?
A kind, good natured caregiving type is what every man will need eventually. Most of us don’t realize this and go for the flashiest woman, only to regret it later. Have seen marriages fall apart in years. True love lies in the quiet gestures and the unconditional emotional support when you are at your worst, a woman with the mental makeup to provide that is priceless. Men will move mountains with a person like that in their life. Look at the lives of the greatest, smartest, wealthiest men that ever lived and you will see what I mean.
Dating sites are a waste of time for men. It's nothing but a market place to evaluate based on wallet size. It is smart for men to avoid dating sites.
I will marry anyone who can talk logic and sense and some other criteria :
- Silent treatment - when I ask a question you answer even if you are mad just say you are mad and will answer later. I cant stand waiting like a moron to get no answer.
- Too much glam - basic skincare and shopping is fine, but if one is obsessive about looks then nope.
- Broad knowledge - has some sense of the world so can talk varied topics
- Non feminist - while I acknowledge the hardships of women and strive to avoid any bias , i dont want any of the new age woke BS
- Tough - yeah while others want sweet and caring I would like to have a partner that can take care of herself if and when the going gets tough and in daily life too and doesnt need 24x7 papa ki pari attention and care.
Alas I dont think such a girls exists, its only in my imagination so yeah I am a bachelor for life. Cheers.
To your question about dating apps: can they have such a filter? Skin color : doesnt matter. Assets: dont matter.
Great points sir..! 😃 Thanks for sharing them..
I think man looks to marry if he sees a potential partner who can blend well with his family and have kids with partner. Marriage is a responsibility not some party and reckless act. Most men needs to feel that the person he is marrying will support him emotionally. Strange but true men are like dogs and women are like cats mentally. Beyond everything a serious man thinks of kids and potential partner with whom he can built a family
Maybe dating apps is for short time stuff or back up kickers not serious however maybe if he finds the above qualities in a women after spending time he might consider and more over it’s personal so it may vary. Relationships are complicated and considering the divorce rate now a days people are loosing hope in marriage unless both of them put a lot of effort into it
It is personal, everyone has different opinions. Cannot generalize
- would not even consider marrying someone who is on dating websites
- personal preferences are : bit educated ( atleast 3 more years after 12), someone who isn't materialistic. Pretty much that's it
Very well articulated..!! Thanks for sharing..!!
Can't generalize & it depends a lot on the platform you are asking. For instance here, most of them said No-Party girl, not true for a lot of other guys.
Anyway if you ask me, It doesn't matter if I found her through dating platform or not, if she is right for me.
What is right?
Idk. I mean ofc I know what I like or not, but I also understood that we can't generalize people, and universe has a very weird way of working & we all are changing, adapting, etc.. you don't know how life's gonna play out.
So yeah, it doesn't make sense to me to be very strict with "requirements"..
The girl is not a gold digger.
She is simple and not wild/party person or alcoholic
Educated , same religion and earning pretty fine. Also, not impulsive and non materialistic.
Family wealth doesn't matter for me as against dowry.
Appreciate your thoughts.
So same religion is okay. What about same caste?
And another question - how do you know if a person is a gold digger or not?
Guys want girls who will take care of his parents. Simple. Doesn't matter even if you earn crores
Every guy has different criteria. Dating apps are just a place to find prospective partners much like matrimony sites these days. Where you find people doesn't matter, what kind of people they are and what they look for matters more.
