FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Ur advice is needed trying to into a relationship finding my dream Girl

Hello, I'm a 25M into a software engineer role. From my teenage hood i was a full career focused guy. Didn't have much travelling, love or many friends during that time. Due to my continuous HW,focus I did my college and landed a good job. Now I am moving to a different job at a different location with different responsibilities. After working at home 4 yrs now I feel I miss talking to a lot of people(maybe friends,maybe love etc).

Now my parents are looking for an alliance. I want to find a relationship with a person by myself not like completely arranged.

I'm been trying for the dating apps Tinder, Bumble, Hindge all seems to be returning no results. Does this actually works or not, I am thinking of finding in person directly though event's but how to find the girl of my life man 🥺. Where in the place do I find her??? Any suggestions for this mates or will the Instagram, facebook will give something???.

I also want to expand my friends network for better career opportunities. So I am going to attend some technical/game events regularly maybe might help and planning to travel.

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PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

You got 2 things right. First, dating apps don't work. Atleast for marriage.
Second, finding a person through events is the best way. Pursue your hobbies or interests. As simple as gym, a morning walk, a badminton game, swimming or dance tutions, travel/trek groups, book clubs etc. Chances of meeting genuine people is much higher than pubs, bars or dating apps.

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Completely agree man, Thanks. 😇After spending many weeks i have uninstalled all even my Instagram

ZestyNugget
ZestyNugget

Sorry to break it to you, there's nothing like dram girl/boy. Nobody is up there moulding the perfect one for us

PrancingJellybean
PrancingJellybean

Are you founder of Zomato?

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

😭😭😭, sure buddy thanks for your response. I am trying to build my friends circle then

WobblyBagel
WobblyBagel
HCL4mo

Bro don't try in bumble , tinder most are scammers. I can suggest you can join a shadicom or some other serious sites , by which you can find single girls as you are serious to find a good one so many girls are also waiting to find some good partners.

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Thanks, buddy. After fed up using this apps i uninstalled all including my Instagram. Will check out shaadi

JazzyKoala
JazzyKoala

Reading between the lines: you want experience before marriage 😉

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

🤣🤣🤣, Bro I'm not brave enough to do that 🤣🤣🤣. I just want to go with luv marriage if possible but these apps are scamming i have uninstalled all now

JumpyHamster
JumpyHamster

Socialize and ask friends to help you get set up. Go on treks, trips and activities.

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Thanks, I'm going for some places to hike. I think it will help to build a circle 🙂🙂

TwirlyBiscuit
TwirlyBiscuit

Finding a wife on dating apps like... Finding a wife on streets

If you carry too much desperation none of the girl will find attractive

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Agreed to it

PeppyMarshmallow
PeppyMarshmallow

won’t work until you are in dream girl delulu , you are in for a world of pain

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Agreed brother, after using these apps for weeks its waste of time as well. Uninstalled all with my Instagram, will focus on something in life

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Attend social events. Marriages, homely parties. Join some yoga classes, travel in big group with unknown as a solo traveler.

Avoid all dating apps. Try matrimonial. Dating apps, pubs are full of clowns

FluffySushi
FluffySushi

Thanks brother will try matrimonial and see it

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