MagicalJellybean
MagicalJellybean
4mo

Unmarried men who are 40+, was it worth it?

I had a breakup with a girl with whom i planned my future. Now nothing makes sense.

I didn't wanted to marry but when i met this girl i thought it would be good to spend my life with her.

Now i can't imagine myself to marry anyone. Is there any 40+ men who are unmarried, i need your opinions. Was it worth it? Are you happy? Or should i just end it all at 40?

4mo ago
ZoomyPenguin
ZoomyPenguin

Think about next steps first

What are your future plans?

Just get married or want to have kids too?

At 40 you are getting married, your kid would get married when you would be around 63-65 something (considering you are blessed with a kid in a year of marriage)

That's quite risky dude 😔

Now, what if you don't want to have kids? Have you discussed that with the girl with whom you want to spend life?

It's just a kid example....there are plenty more things to discuss

Travel plans, work, family (your parents, her parents), siblings lots of things ....

Talk to yourself, what you want!! And just do it if your inner says YESS ❤️

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

How is the kid part risky

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