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SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
19mo
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Unfair Targeting from a Team Lead

There's a senior member in my team who serves as a lead (kind of). He consistently tells me not to come in late to the office, despite the fact that he and many others often arrive after I do. It seems like he specifically targets me, and I can't understand why.

Recently, when he confronted me again about being late, we ended up having a heated argument because I pointed out that he also arrives late. This time, I just acknowledged him and ignored the comment to avoid escalation. He mentioned that my punctuality would affect my appraisal, but honestly, I'm not particularly concerned about that.

I'm looking for advice on how to handle this situation. Arguing with him could lead to more targeted issues, which I want to avoid. However, staying silent feels unfair, especially since my colleagues also recognize that he singles me out. I want to maintain peace without feeling unjustly treated.

What's the best way to deal with this?

19mo ago
QuirkyMarshmallow
QuirkyMarshmallow
19mo

Sometimes we often think too much on things that hardly are of any importance, since he is senior and you feel he is targeting, try to just do your work and ignore patiently if he scolds , don't get into heated argument.

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
19mo

Sounds reasonable

TwirlyDonut
TwirlyDonut
19mo

Are bhai office ke bahar jaha CCTV na lage ho vaha dekh le usko achhe se... πŸ˜‚

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco
19mo

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

PerkyPretzel
PerkyPretzel
19mo

As long as you are working diligently, show him his place dude. You will find douches everywhere. It is OK to stand up against idiots.

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda
19mo

My manager doesn't care about login and logout. He just wanted to complete work on time.

DerpyPotato
DerpyPotato
19mo

Try to go for a coffee couple of times Offer him a lunch party during Friday

He will become friend,...

Just enjoy with your new friend.

DerpyNarwhal
DerpyNarwhal

Seriously? 🀣🀣

FuzzyKoala
FuzzyKoala
19mo

Taking release would be a better option
Learn as much as y can and leave

GigglyUnicorn
GigglyUnicorn
19mo

Start talking about his personal life and he never opens his mouth again .

JumpyNoodle
JumpyNoodle
19mo

First discuss with your Supervisor and if he doesn’t help talk to HR

SnoozyPretzel
SnoozyPretzel
19mo

Let your work talk πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

CosmicMuffin
CosmicMuffin
19mo

In the search of security you will lose your freedom, so stand against the bully

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