Unfair Life for Men
Female friend moves to Germany for masters, struggles to find a job for a year → starts posting lifestyle pics → explodes with followers in months. Male friend does the exact same thing → barely any growth. Looks + gender = rocket fuel on social media.

in a zoo, monkeys will attract more visitors. Thier antics are worth watching. a lion copying the same and doing the same antics will attract none.
The monkey in question


What did you expect. Equality?
Female friend gets married. Plans to have baby. Companies reject in interviews knowing she's newly married/expecting baby.
Make friend. Does the exact same thing. Gets offer.
Patriarchy + gender = society

Life itself is unfair.. That's what makes it interesting..

Comparing journeys only adds frustration. Social media success has very little correlation with real career stability or long-term fulfillment.