Trending @Cognizant; Don’t like my job
Hi all, hope you are all fine. But I am not. Every morning I am having the thought “Why I am still here” I am so stuck right now. Mentally and physically, I am really felt bad. Going to 4 days office by myself and no colleagues meet-up till now. Even though I am nice, I have the feeling of people hate me. Initially I worked hard but these days I hate this after knowing my hike and performance rating. I don’t know whats the problem with me. But recently I am having suicidal thoughts. Only am here for my parents. People don’t know how many times I cried and comfort myself and move forward but they easily make fun of me. I need salary to stand on my own but not this. Seriously I can’t 🫠. I never had good guidance. Pls I need some advice to move on from my current situation. Please help.
I am in the same place, I think people hate me. Just today I was escalated by manager. I didn't get promoted rather I got negative feedback for not doing RTO. I have been working 12 hours everyday for last 2 months and they literally ignored it. I want my salary to be increased, people to respect me, parents to be proud. But it seems the dream is just getting ahead faster and I'm slower. But I have to hamg on. One fine day I will have everything. We will remember this shitty organisation and smile with pride how far we've come. That's the dream.
Getting a bad rating when you are a PA is not an issue. Increase your knowledge and try to improve gradually. Ask your manager politely about why you got bad rating and how it can be improved. Request them to provide action items so that you can work on them and deliver in time. Meanwhile keep learning new things in your current technology.
Start giving as many interviews as you can.
If you believe you can do something with your skill, please try freelancer...then quit your job.
Take some time and join a better organization and join back. Till then try with freelancer
Buddy I felt that way a while ago it's normal the best thing I can tell you is take a long vacation visit your parents visit new places change your perspective on life. And having a felling that people hate you is not good, make sure they hate you believe me it's fun that way 😅 everyone in my project hated me for a long time and they didn't even hide it but with time things change you will find people well they won't care but are nice 🙂 people. And if you are feeling underpaid upskill yourself and switch don't think about suicide nobody will care if you live or die only people you will be hearting are your parents and believe me the pain they will feel after loosing you will be far greater than whatever shit you are going through now.
And nobody likes there job if someone says they like there job they are stoned 🥴 everyone does it for money. Don't worry it a phase it will pass
Nothing should be bothering your personal lifestyle and mental health. If you feel like this project is not good and colleagues are not good then you can try taking a release and get into some other project
Bro , I was also in same situation, I suffered for 11 months for a particular manager.. I was PA then , but you know what you need to be clear on one thing. Ask yourself what you need the most?? Is it your hike or your peace!! I think you will choose peace.. then step up do some out of the box like directly go to your higher person tell them to release you , you are facing this issue in that particular project.. he/she will bring up many questions.. you need to deny them on his/her face.. and you can also avoid to show your productivity in that project.. push them to release you from the account.. Now I assume you have good amount of experience and knowledge.. Just come out of the account people will start contacting you ... You'll not be unemployed I promise.. if you come to different team may be you will get some good people.. otherwise you will stuck in the loop, you will do something, somedays people will say, after few day nobody will fuc*ing care about you.. so throw out the bad thoughts.. take some long weekend leaves, give yourself some time, then comeback and strike!! ❤️ I don't want to hear any bad thing from your side.. I don't know you but I hope you will be happy!! And this will help.
Leave the Job , Look for some other jobs or Higher Study
Wait for two days. If situation and mindset not changing, it's not right place. Just move. More than job , life and family is important. U will get peaceful job. No worries 👍
Stay strong
Brother, I aim to be in proper development, stuck in ops project, here and there creating some automation, but I feel exhausted. But I know I have to work on myself amd things will change. You will get the change too.Stay strong
Hey ,what you guys are always thinking ,Do you think suicide will solve all the problems? have you ever thought,switching companies solve the problem? If you do,the problem will become double for your family.If you switch we are not sure what you are going to get . High chances that you get toxic work culture , toxic manager because Nowadays All the organizations are working only for one moto that's "Profit" and have the same working models. I am pretty sure your salary will be above 25k as of now and definitely you have seen people whose whole family income is even less than 20-25k .I will give you a one line solution for all your problems " keep yourself busy for 24 hours"don't depend on jobs just make at least one skill which is non technical, I mean cooking,driving anything in case of Emergency.keep in your mind one thing you are working in this company just for fun.
