PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle
23mo

Trending @Capgemini; Story Update: Why does this happen to me?

I went to party with colleagues last week and I complimented someone on their dress. She made a big tantrum about how that was inappropriate. But on the other hand, when our boss made the same comment but even more crass then she was very jovial and upbeat.

What did I do wrong here? Have you seen this double standard happen too at Capgemini?

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23mo ago
CosmicRaccoon
CosmicRaccoon

Posh mail ayega jaldi 😐

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@NotedCrime Wait really? That is literally insane. I am very scared what should I do? Should I resign?

CosmicRaccoon
CosmicRaccoon

Areh areh ! Don't worry. I m just casually said. Just ignore them . Aesa kuch ni hota hai. Double standard log sab jagah pe hai.

DerpyPretzel
DerpyPretzel

I am not praising capgemini but this does not have anything to do with company if he/she will go to other company they will behave in same way. Its on person how they want to take the comment and from whom. Just have a one to one conservation and tell forgot abt my comment. If she is not accepting it then leave and move forward dude

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@CriminalLag3 I am very scared what should I do? Should I resign?

FloatingWaffle
FloatingWaffle

Take a chill pill brother

BouncyPancake
BouncyPancake

Wont say more but I had wonderful exp with my colleague in other company . Its how you approach and impress

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@FatDarkness1 Do you mean you were with them having a good time?

BouncyPancake
BouncyPancake

Yup , but in previous company . Not here

DerpyWaffle
DerpyWaffle

Forget about it. She might be a golden digger, let her dig. And you are not the boss, man...., once you are the boss, u can expect the same as what her boss got from her. And don't judge anyone just like that. ✌️

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@JaspritBumrah Gold diggers can only dig gold sadly.

BouncyPotato
BouncyPotato

Its very easy to say gold digger, but may be she also scared to loose job in current market thats why she didn't replied to boss and did she done anything wrong with creator of post or filed any complaint, it happens many times with women

SleepyNarwhal
SleepyNarwhal

One of my friend is in CG, he has made teams as tinder

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@16bit He must be having so much fun.

PrancingPickle
PrancingPickle

Having a date in cafeteria

FloatingWaffle
FloatingWaffle

Sorry that you faced this but, Never give compliments or spill any flirty lines with colleagues if they are not friendly with you.
Btw you have done nothing wrong here don't worry about it ❤️

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@64bit Are you sure? I feel very rough when I go to the office now and especially on meets.

FloatingWaffle
FloatingWaffle

Are Bhai don't worry nothing serious will happen unless you sexually harass her, These types of things happen generally but just be aware from next time when you pass statements

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

First of all don't worry. Second why would you compliment the opposite gender in the current scenario where it can become an issue? third, boss can help her climb the ladder faster but you can't so she has no reason to be good with you. Sarcastically

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@FacelessVoid Yeah, I think the boss will open up new doors for her and that is why she is not doing anything.

DerpyPretzel
DerpyPretzel

Just say sorry and move on. You are thinking too much. You may be fresher but just keep in mind that just first be friend of someone and think twice before saying. And if you wanted to say if like n alm just say it nicely and may be one on one not in front of public

PerkyNoodle
PerkyNoodle

@CriminalLag3 I am genuinekly worried about all of this now. Will this affect my career man?

DerpyPretzel
DerpyPretzel

You are really overthinking now

PerkyDumpling
PerkyDumpling

Company ki baat naa hai isme, bandi kam akal kii lgg ri

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