Trending @Capgemini; More money more have to give to the people if they ask I should not say no
More savings & insecurity feeling like I have to donate to the relatives, friends, family etc.. when I speak to them I have to give whatever they ask I am affraidng to say no them I am giving money and also don't have option how to stay away from such situations. How do I need to control those types of tension from mind . Live freely.
Start fixed investment amounts every month like SIP, EMIs etc... so that you won't have in your account when someone asks
But here the things is they are not bothering about the amount in account, whether I have not, the trauma they are putting in my head making me psychologically weak, thier plan is if put pressure I go somewhere and adjust money irrespective of whether have balance in account or not
Just say no! Lie to them that you have invested your money in some bonds,FDs,MF, health insurance and you have to pay hefty premium every year to sustain these insurance
Dont give your money. Just ask yourself will they help you if you are in dire need for money? You are earning so hard for you and for your family. In todays world the relatives and friends are the most fake and opportunist people! Tell them to earn if they need money.
It's fine, you need to stop worrying about what they will think(especially relatives) about you if you don't give money sometimes.
I have given around 20k to a friend (not a close friend) on the promise that he'll be returning it within a month. It's been 1 year now😕
