Trending @Accenture; Felling low.......
I’m not feeling good. One of my neighbours said bad words to my mother about her character,she is a single parent. Even after 4 days, she didn’t come to say sorry. Out of frustration, I called the aunty, but her elder daughter picked up. She suddenly started talking to me very sweetly in English, and since I was already upset, I told her, “I also know English, but main Hindi mein baat kar rahi hu toh aap bhi Hindi mein baat kijiye.” I was angry and just burst out.
Now, they have twisted the whole point—that it was her mother who said bad words—and they are judging my education and profession, assuming I don’t know English just because I told her to speak in Hindi. I don’t know why, but I’m feeling really bad about this.
Pagal hai kya vai? Koyi tereko bolega tu english nehi janta to low feel karega? Aise to koyi bhi kuch bhi bol dega aur tu low feel karta rahega, itna logo ki baaton mein dhyan maat de warna IT industry mein bhi issues hoga bohot
We cant change how and what others think. Dont waste energy try to correct or confront anyone. Focus on what you have and enjoy it. You will hear 100 things daily in work/neighbours if you start worrying about everything you will lose that time to spend it with your loves ones. Let them be whatever they want to think. You just make sure in few years you make your mother proud and those people’s words will never be louder than the happiness your mom will feel.
It's very sad. Consider it as a point in your life that directs you towards health, wealth and prosperity.
Let me tell you one thing, whenever something bad happens, do something good for yourself and your family, which you would not have done otherwise.
I once had a quarrel with one of my neighbours, it led me to great things ahead because I chose to do something that even pays me now.
It can be just joining a gym, a healthier choice, a happy moment with your family or even reviving an old friendship. Anything small. With time it will be a habit.
After all, the best slap on the face of your neighbours is being unaffected and doing good to yourself and your family. It will never be winning an argument.
confront them in civilised way, you're educated, they're not. you can't control what people say but you can control what affects you.
