There is this really beautiful woman that I met in a club. We had a great time and ended up at her place. While leaving for my home next day I realised that she might have another man staying at her place. I logically deduced that it might be her brother or boyfriend. Any way she texted me in about a week that her boyfriend and her are interested in me being the unicorn in their relationship. 🦄 I dont know what that means so I looked it up online and realised what they mean. What do I even do here? I am really into her and I love her aura but this is scary. I don't want to end up in a situation with multiple people. Especially considering that I am a single woman who is new to this city.
I agree with @WiryDescent on this. This is actually scary and in the unicorn style polyamory the power dynamics are against you. Usually as a throuple it is way more egalitarian.
I have no idea what half these words even mean
Ifkr. They are trying to use me.
ok, ok hmm okayy unicorn whats that (lets google)
fast forward…2x….
ur a gurl??
Firstly I don’t bdleive in idea that there are girls on GV. You identify as an apache helicopter! Secondly, listen to what others said…be safe!
i am avoiding that couple now
girls aren’t real, so everyone identify as apache helicopters!!
Having seen a friend in something like this, I recommend not to get into this for foll reasons -
You are new to the city -it is hectic and scary to get into something this complicated
Trust your gut instinct - if you are scared then there is a reason
If you're into her then you can continue meeting her and then proceed with how it goes but ONLY HER. Not her partners.
Set your boundaries straight.
This is a messy situation because many at times people don't know what they want themselves.
In that scenario, they will gang up on you.
that is what I am worried about. them ganging up on me.
Kept me hooked till the last line 😂
AIDS ka keeda ghus jayega bhai bachkey🤣multiple yaun partners
Bhai nahi behen hu
I have so many questions after reading this post. Are you a story teller or it’s a real one?
I am willing to answer the questions but you need to be more sympathetic to my situation rather than going for the story teller angle.
The intention was simply to check whether it's genuine or not. Often, posts like these turn out to be fake.
In your situation, I would advise considering all the consequences before making any such decision. Having clarity with a sound mind is much better than regretting later for acting hastily.
Wait what
yeah
Be careful in this. You can be taken advantage of.
i am avoiding that couple now
I would suggest to ask more questions and know. What if they are just together as a facade and not a real couple to just please their families. Kinda like the movie with Rajkumar Rao. Is their arrangement temporary?
I’m not sure. I’m too spooked now. Now paying any heed to them anymore.
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