Thoughts on relationship dynamics

For folks who don’t drink or smoke, will you be okay if your partner does drinking and partying with his/her friends occasionally (let’s say weekly). And do you draw any line between smoking and drinking? Or both are at similar level.

And i do not mean to gender stereotype, but what are some gender specific views on this

20h ago

BubblyBanana

Deloitte

18h

NO. I don't drink or smoke or party. I won't get along with someone who follows such a lifestyle. Not even occasionally.

BubblyDumpling

Accenture

Good..

CosmicLlama

Freelancer

20h

I don't mind if my girl friend drinks and/or smokes. But i wont agree if my wife drinks/Smokes.

Why?

Because, If my wife falls sick due to all the drinking and smoking i will have to pay the bills. For my girlfriend, papa ki pari will be taken care by her papa.

DizzyUnicorn

Accenture

20h

Haha, that's smart

SleepyLlama

Accenture

16h

Lol 😆

CosmicQuokka

Paralleldots

20h

I would not like my partner be ripe for liver cirrhosis, and also can't relate with smokers.

QuirkyDumpling

Stealth

20h

That’s understandable

SleepyLlama

Accenture

16h

Fair point.

JumpyPretzel

Stealth

10h

Drinking “weekly”, should certainly be NOT termed as “occasional”.

QuirkyDumpling

Stealth

That’s true, idk why folks say regular drinking as occasional and occasional smoking as never

SleepyLlama

Accenture

16h

Personally I don't want my partner to smoke/drink. Partying is okay without smoke/drink. If you can't party without them, then in my case, go for cycling or sleep.
It is personal preference*. Life is already fucked up.