thoughts ?

I liked her in the second para, and then third para was a turn off. Maintain the character in paragraphs at least gurl 🤦‍♂️

if you liked their company then pay`

Meh, to each their own ¯_(ツ)_/¯ If a girl wants the guy to pay and finds a guy who wants to pay, great If a girl wants the guy to pay but the guy wants to split, also good, now you know you're not compatible, what's there to whine about?

I used to always pay everywhere with my ex because I was financially better off With the one "date" I've been, I paid I think I'm the kind of person who automatically reaches for the tab ¯_(ツ)_/¯

But I've been to dinner with someone from my industry and in this case he wouldn't allow me to split/pay (I saw the point, obviously, he was the senior between the two of us and I'd have done the same thing if the situation was reversed)

I don't understand the shaming, honestly

What's wrong?!! If she is my friend, I would like to split, although sometimes I would own up for everyone in the group. If I am dating her, and I know she cares about my finances and wanna be a wife then I would own every expenditure. It's normal yr. The only clause is that she should be a wife material.

If the girl does not offer to pay her share in the first date, at least for the sake of formality, then it is a no from me. What are you really earning for if that's the case!?

Lol, In the first two paragraph she was trying to act cool and telling about equality and all but then she realized ki ye split karne na bol de date pay and then she wrote the third para😂

On the first few dates split.

equality , what ?

Curious - Even if suppose you wanna split... How would you say? Atleast one has to pay at front right? And it's the other person's responsibility to ask for split or xyz.. how you are suppose to ask ki "Give me 50%" 🫠