alluding to misandry
No I haven't been alluding to an accusation of misandry, but criticising the fact that many of these poems, cartoons, graphics do have veiled misandry as a motivation. I clarified that I am not accusing you of misandry for defending these but criticising not recognizing the motivation behind a lot of them. Just to be clear your argument was that such posts generalizing and bashing men is ok because they are expression of solidarity among women. Regardless of your gender you have to defend that argument, and not a preceived accusation of misandry.
fragile ego. men who want to do something don't stop and stand down just because one small section hates men.
My argument wasn't about action but a categorization of all criticism of the current direction the discourse was going towards into just "fragile male ego". That is a lazy argument and and ad hominem. If you hadn't paid attention the whole discourse has now devolved into an extended gender wars being fought by two small section but very loud and vocal individuals who hate the other gender. The problem is that hijacking the discourse is polarizing the larger narrative as happened during nirbhaya and during MeToo, and the result will be the same, it will eventually die down with nothing happening again.
MeToo
Nope, the movement and their leader instantly lost all credibility after Amber Heard's conviction. Though some good things did happen during the movement, it did reverse after the fall. That's tragic. Yes the discourse immediately went to the opposite narrative, which too is wrong. But that opportunity was given becausr the insistence that all accusations are right. Had the reform been to institute a good process for verification this swing wouldn't have happened in the first place, instead we would have a system that worked.
no one is bashing men for being born with a dick but for actions they are doing.
You do realize that just after saying that you aren't generalizing men you immediately generalize men in the next line. That's a poor argument.
toxic gender wars
That's your thing bro. I don't care what side you are on. My issue is you taking a side in the gender war, whether pro-men or pro-women. Gender war isnt abiut suffering but being in conflict with the other gender. I realize what women go through, and I abhor it. I do agree a lot of mrn do not suffer the same issue. But I am against those thing not because I picked a side in the gender war, but because i think those things are wrong.
men who don't have fragile ego can see beyond this fluff and not fixate to small set of discourse.
1 it is not fluff anymore but has taken a center stage
2 whether you like it or not it will alienate men, good and bad alike, even the ones without fragile egos. Because it is a generalization, being blamed for something they are rather than what they do. And that's problematic