when he meets a girl of his dreams, even the girl likes him
but he isn't ready yet
so he ends up fumbling her
he knows she's never coming back
and he uses that pain to fuel his further growth
break ups are good?
So relatable! Forget about break up, even loosing a friend (one sided love) for whom you had strong feelings can cause the same. Such separations can be like a super power. You become to immune to heart breaks. No girl can ever hurt you after that. You feel like you have nothing to loose in life. But the downside is you won't be able to form emotional bond with any girl which no human deserves. It's a double edged sword. You will be forever grateful for this learning but within your heart you know that if you can use time machine what's the first thing you will do - go back in time and fix things with her :)
Time heals everything. Been in same position over 7 years ago. Fell in one sided love with a friend. She said no and I lost the one person whom I loved and cared about. Then found someone who is really chill and I learnt to love again. Now she is my wife and we are together for 2 years now.
@samosa bhai
Sab thik hai na?
haan bhai sab chill
Samosa me fillings aagyi
Breakups are hard to swallow, especially when it's with someone who was your whole world—beautiful, loving, and caring. Even after a year and a half, her memory still lingers, and sometimes, all I can do is wipe away the tears and keep moving forward. First love is never easy to forget. But if there’s one truth I’ve found, it’s this: pain can either break you or build you. And for me, this heartbreak has become my fuel. It hurts, yes—but it's also what drives me to grow, to level up, and to become someone I can be proud of. If you are reading this I wish you all the luck.
Meri zindagi me to nhi aaya aisa din 😔
Hiii buddies,
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