the first thing boys do when they walk into a room is decide who's the Alpha there

Correct, Boys do that.

Not Men....

Intimidating isn't that bad. It's not the girls fault that the other can't match her standards.

How to explain this 🤔

So men Alpha is top tier looks physique money confidence attitude etc Women aren't all of that in one go generally saying So we look for energy, vibes which clash vibes which match

Especially if you know who is coming before hand, their would a shift in tension as the vibes are analysed

Abla Female.