Surviving the life.
How y'all keep the will to live? I mean, nowadays i get " why even bother to live " kind of thoughts.
Is it just a normal phase that every work corporate peers comes across or is it just me? As now a days my days are completely uneventful, just going to office comes back sleep and same circle for 1.8 months. Being in fully night shift makes it even worser. I really wana have a way out.
I repeatedly get the thought of die myself, but knows fully that i ain't that brave to suicide, but i repeatedly wish or think, what if a truck hits me and i have a very bad death. I feel the main core point i wish like this is that I'm genuinely scared of this rat race thingy, some of the people are doing so well in life and i myself feel i never gona make to anywhere and the guilt i would be having after 20 years would be pretty large. So my mind be like, just give up bro. To avoid the large guilt in future.
How y'all survive? Or keep away these thoughts? I know these are the things only i myself can fix, but some suggestions would be appreciated.
When you already want death, and are not even afraid of death, then why are you afraid of other much more stupid things like "rat race"? 😄
What is the worst anything else in life can do to you? Kill you? You are already ready for that.
So go out and live your life fearlessly and reckless abandon. And whenever death comes, you will embrace it thankfully anyway.
Most of the universe is made up of non-living things, hydrogen & helium gas, fire, rocks, and ice. Among all that, being a living thing is a mindbogglingly rare phenomenon.
So enjoy this rare experience of life while it's there. Death will come soon enough for us all. You don't have to wait or do anything for that.
So just live for now 😊
Thanks for that, yeah gotta live with the moto i live only once or whatever happens it happens motto ig. I feel this issue mainly comes because i care about😂other's validation. Trynna stop that, so i could enjoy some peace.
Happens to me too! I keep thinking I am never doing enough. Even if the other person says that wow you're doing this and that it makes me think that this is very normal and every other human being around me is doing much more. I never think of death, I am a god fearing person. I would never die out of career issues but I might die out of my past traumas. But don't let it take over you. Be your own competitor. Not with others. I know it's very easy to say but when we see people around or hear something about them the thoughts slowly creep in. Very natural kind of peer pressure. But always, always be grateful for whatever you've achieved still now. If you're not grateful enough in life, in the process of searching for more and more you'll tend to lose whatever you have now. Instead of thinking about death, sit with your life and think about what more you can do without putting yourself under pressure, what skill you can learn or if you want to explore hobbies outside of work , find like minded people to talk about things or just random meetups. You said that the office is not eventful. I think too much of an eventful office is also a pain. You'll have responsibilities, you'll be asked to come wherever people want and if you want to save money or have financial issues then don't get involved in big groups but find only like minded people who'll understand and will not force you to come out. You can talk to your manager about keeping one outing every month to increase team building among teams and also set a budget which everybody can contribute to have fun. Moral : Please stop thinking about ending your life and start thinking about how you can engage yourself into things that bring you mental peace and lead to happiness.. 😊
Thanks for the thoughts, i feel like my mind itself is the biggest rival i have ever faced. Never agreeing to what i want or always having second thoughts for whatever i think. But still because of this same mind i can at least know what I'm or what i want, even tho it degrades a bit in every thought. Well as you said maybe i should rest a bit and think what can i do with my remaining amount of time. Again thanks for expressing thoughts. Plus your id name is creative tho.
Your story sounds plausible. Never think about ending your life. I understand your current situation. I won't recommend you to join a gym, outing, sports...etc. which is a very common dialogue ppl will suggest. But I can say..a good friend will really mitigate your pain and make your life easier and happier. Just try to find one. I know it's not easy but this is what I can suggest at the moment.
I already got friends. Actually because of them i feel like im alive. But now we all are at this point of phase and nobody knows the remedy for this solution. I still strongly feel that this might be a just a phase not the life. But thanks for your thoughts regarding this matter.
Rat Race is the reason u r getting these thoughts, befrnd someone who's not from our industry u will feel happy
Yeah, i do feel happy if i ain't with my co workers, but again monday comes and the mind is down again. I want to escape from that isolation.
Thanks
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