Suggestions pls
I am planning to buy home in pune Thinking not to tell to my parents but my in laws knows everything about it. Reason not telling my parents - wife will be in frustration that my father didnt supported financially so it will lead to fight between us Suggestions please
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You should definitely inform your Parents. Just imagine how he will feel when he gets to know that you already bought a home and didn't inform him.
Irrespective of your gender
Parents >>>>>Spouse
Yeah correct
This is absurd. You should not blindly generalize that parents>>>> spouse. There are alot of parents who are clearly not happy with their children progress. They want to have a full control on their children's life. Let's just be true to the person who is actually happy and supportive for you.. be it parents or spouse whoever it is in your case rather than generalizing.
don’t tell father but keep the home on your mother’s name not on wife’s not in yours but your mother’s that’s it
Father didn’t support financially? Buddy without your father’s financial support you would’ve never been where you are now, I hope you are educated and it was funded by your parents and not by your spouse. Remember your parents should be your first priority any day, though I’m not saying your wife shouldn’t be your priority but always remember without your parents ‘You are nothing’
Right now every person try to compare with other .so if your friends father have given them money for home . They also think there father should do the same .
Not telling your father before a major decision will not be appreciated in a typical Indian family. Ofcourse these days kids are not seeking parents approval but I feel you should inform your father as a matter of respect.
Wife do wife things always, I wouldn't say ignore but manage.
Why is your wife expecting your father to support??
Is it something like - you have some siblings, and your father supported them, so that's why she expects your father to support you too?
Bhai sahi pakad liye
Listen to me inform ur parents first
This is sheer inequality. You are what you are because of parents. She came into your life because of what you are. So, do inform your parents even if you are contributing 1 percent in buying the house. Don't tell your wife that you told your parents. She will have one less reason to fight.
Please please tell your parents. I'm sure they will be happy to see their son achieve a major milestone personally.
But he is probably prioritizing wifey over them... why? Because wife will be frustrated if he tell anything to parents.. which doesnt sound okay to me.
Will you give 50% of this home in a divorce? Because the court will give, even if you don't want to.
Is she contributing to 50% of the money while buying? Why do her in laws know everything but yours don't?
People who are commenting here to tell your parent may be blessed kids who got supportive and loving parents. So the answer is relative to each one’s childhood and what type of parenting they have received. If your parents were toxic, it’s better to stay away from them. But if they were kind and loving then you should definitely be closer to them.