Suggestion or ideas

Hi,

I am 27 f , soon turn to be 28 . I am from normal middle class , rural city. The thing is last year we came across alliance , they only contacted us first. The horoscopes are matching everything. I am single daughter , introvert, only earning person in my family. My parents said they are decent and good natured family .they arevso devotional like that. And we sent my photo to them . Once they saw the photo , they said my son is not earning much (he earns lesser than me) and they back off. After some time my mother enquired about that, they need fair girl for their son and when we call them they will say they will keep us in their mind. Eventhough the boy is not in job we proceed only because of horoscope matching and decent family. But they rejected us. Not only them many alliances reject us because of status , color. Now that same lady came us and ask us whether they can visit our house for meeting. My parents are partially ok with this. But for me it is an insult and something feels not so good about this. If no options are left they are coming to me . My parents are saying no one is willing to come . What should I do now? Can't accept anyone just like that. I am not blaming anyone here. Everyone can have expectations. I have also fault that I have rejected marriage because I need to focus on my career .It's so hurtful and tiring to stand infront of everyone eventhough not liking to do it .