Struggling with trust and mental health issues
It has been 30 days since I got married. Before the marriage, everything was going well and I trusted her. She doesn’t talk much with me but speaks nicely with everyone else. Recently, I found out she talks every night late with a guy from her office. When I try to talk to her about it, she says she needs her personal space. I do almost all the household chores. She isn't contributing to the house expenses; I pay the rent and buy the necessary items for the home.i am not sleeping everyday and it affecting my mental health. Can someone give me suggestions?
Sorry to hear this but you should have done background check thoroughly as it is getting quiet common nowadays. Maybe try checking her phone even when she is not around if you get a chance. Or else you are smart enough to understand what is going on.
You can’t do much about it anyway if she is cheating on you. Confronting her is the best you can do else nothing is gonna help you are doomed anyway.
But given the fact that office guy is aware of the fact that she is married... Office guy should also make her understand this stuff.. that interaction for work is fine... but anything beyond that is against ethics and immoral..
I'm in no way telling that girl is right.. but just looking from a different angle.
Matlab I'm feeling suffocated by even listening this... how can somebody be like this (both Babu and shona) (damn)... and it haunts me with the thought of marriage:(
Dude if you have a female friend and is close to you. Just ask her how many Dms she get.
Right from school to work,every guy tries to stay in touch and wants to fuck them. Some of them are way out of her league too,still they give attention to them. So if a girl is staying loyal despite of all this attention she gets from every corner. You are so lucky. I am not justifying cheating but imagine a man getting the same amount of attention,would he not fuck around.
Find love that’s the only way to have a happy marriage at least for few years.
Start documenting hard evidence. Suggest couple's therapy, just to give her a chance. It's very unlikely this will help, but at least you would have tried it from your side. See how you can get a divorce with minimal loss to yourself and your family. She's going to financially hurt you extremely badly. Look for a good lawyer.
Good lawyer also gonna crush him financially. Either way its doomed situation. Best is to both partner openly explore outside. Make a pact, that no one will interfere in lives, u want to fck office guy, fck him. I will fck someone else.
I don't know but I heard this story multiple times on this app.
Arranged marriage?
I think you should speak to her and listen to her expectations and speak your expectations as well.
Talking more about how both of you make this relationship better.
And clearing your head before you sleep is more important, you can’t carry forward the same issue to the next day. It will affect you and your physical being as well .
Take her out and mingle with her
#Trapped. If it was not arranged, you're the one at fault.
Bro become a narcissistic for some days and don't do anything in house don't contribute at all. Escape from bills for some days saying some reasons observe her then take the decision wisely
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