Struggling to Decide on Marriage Due to Age Gap and Future Uncertainty
I have known my colleague for about a year. She is 30, and I'm 25. Over time, we have developed strong feelings for each other and truly love each other.
She is mature, kind, and understanding - and she has asked me about marriage a couple of times. However, I'm finding it difficult to make a decision right now. Maybe it's because of the 5-year age gap or my worries about the future. Our cast is the same so I am not worried abt that.
I'm not very financially stable at the moment, but despite that, she's willing to stand by me and even marry me. I really like her as a person and don't want to lose her, but at the same time, I feel unsure about whether I'm ready for marriage at this age.
I'd like some advice how should I think about this situation and make the right decision for both of us?
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If the person is right, has your back, they are mature enough and you are convinced enough that they will stand by what they are saying. Go for it.
Have it clear on how you would want to start your family and what life after marriage would look like, any sort of expectations and adjustments you think they and you will have to do.
It’s difficult to find a like minded soul of your choice , once you find them…treasure them for ever. And everything is never going to be perfect, all you need is someone who won’t give up on you and will always have your back.
Trying that only
As I explained to her I need to discuss all those things so she asked for time on a good note to think abt that.
Hoping the outcome would be good for us.
Marry her....... Trust me you won't regret...
She is thinking abt it right now I feel as I am late and I never asked her and now her family already found a guy for her and now I told her abt seriousness from my end she is taking time to decide the things. 🤞 Hoping positive
You're her backup option...her time is ticking she knows that... If she was good enough she will be married by now
Zip your pant for a while and think why you want to marry a grandma.
End as soon as possible