Some truths will always sting a little
Some people don’t really want to change their life. They just want to talk about how hard it is. Every day it’s the same story. They’re tired, done, heartbroken, unlucky, or misunderstood. You try to help, you try to lift them up, but they don’t want to stand up for themselves.
If you can’t fight for yourself, no one else can. The world can hand you advice, opportunities, and even sympathy, but not courage. At some point, you have to stop waiting for someone to save you and decide to show up for yourself.
You can either keep saying “why me” or start saying “watch me.” The difference is how badly you want your life to change......
Hi. I am tired, heartbroken, unlucky and misunderstood.
How was your day?
My day was awesome 😎😎
You are my replica😟😟
Im pretty sure everybody in that position wants to do something about it. A few are given opportunities, a few find ways, a few get addicted to stuff and a few give up. Irrespective, its not that easy to simply wake up and decide today I'll change my life.
It's one thing to tell but another to live through it.
For everyone who are trying to get it sorted, at your own time and at your own pace.
True, it’s never simple. Everyone’s story is different and healing takes time. My point was that at some stage, you have to want that change for yourself. Support helps, but no one else can make that decision for you
I had a friend she is the same. Whenever I talk it's the same sob stories. Eventually I stopped meeting. She left me traumatized every time I met her.
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I am some people.
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You know what, if you try to help these kind of people and if they don’t wanna get out of it, gradually you will start become like them. It’s better to let them fight and win their own inner battles. Winning inner battles is most difficult but it’s not impossible.
Damn true.....
Philosophy is good I have had around 5 people who gave up on life, one friend tried to end his life, I'm happy I was able to pull them out of their misery effort wise for each of them around an year or so. For one friend I remembered it took me around 2 years of constantly supporting her to make her realise there's more to life. But yes in conclusion both the individual who wants to change and you as the helper needs to put in a lot of effort.
Absolutely. It really does take effort from both ends the person who wants to change and the one trying to help. I’ve seen that too. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it when even one person decides to turn things around.
What is the purpose of this post? Just wondering.
Some people post everyday in this community and keep saying I don't like my life, I don't look good, I don't have a girlfriend, I'm not getting married. And I'm tired of seeing such post. You give this person any suggestions, he'll again start crying that this is not going to happen. I cannot do this. I cannot do that..... He earns good, he has money and he keeps crying all the time.
Yikes that's bitter truth but yes I can understand this because I am also the same.
It's really really difficult to change but I guess it has to be done.
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Sadly know a few such people. :/
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Broooo @Cherryblossom you worded it perfectly. Some people are comfortable in their sorrows and talking about it and honestly speaking about sorrows is addictive.
Whereas for a person like me I run away from people who cry on everything - unless it's set of "my close people"
Thanks for understanding 😊😊😊
