some life suggestions

Happy marriage?? Acc to me:

• one boy girl and one girl boy (must)
• care and understanding
• respect your elders (sirf respect chahiye aajkal.. household etc ka itna nhi h)
• easy going sasu maa for bahu (must)
• 0% fear in having any kind of conversation with each other (comfort and trust)
• given the fact lady love is annoyed for some reason, keep the bandwidth to just listen and allow her to speak as much as she wants. (Vice-versa)
• just try not to hurt by words or actions (khud se hi kuch sochkr baith jaye toh.. wo behaviour mei reflect ho jata - baat krlo simple)
• thoda sa pyaar and baatein together (kabhi outing, movie, dance etc etc)..

I think itna hi kaafi h... Baki to sab aata jaata rahega...

If you don't mind.. Can you please tell us something about point of failures in your relationship?

I understand everyone has different sort of challenges but it will help to learn from your experience and may be a reminder to not do the same mistakes which you or your loved one did :)

You forgot to add your flings and ons, please mention that too. And why you are looking for sympathy here now. Those guys who used you and now using some other girl go back to them.

Vibe, emotional intelligence of both. Rest is temporary

Love could be developed after marriage as well His family background in a sense yes, such that you will be under their care as well, so they should also have the same emotional intelligence Finances no, they come and go

That's my way of thinking

The next guy you meet, be truthful. That will build the foundation

Do you think it would have been different if you were never been in any relationship

Introspect if reason is you or them. If it’s them improve your standard if it’s you low your standards

CTC?