Assuming you are a male. If you are abroad having a hard time socializing , I would highly recommend using some activities where you can find people on regular basis.
- Gym
- Sports activities
- Going out And don't worry people are ready to help just ask. Maybe someone is also waiting for helping hand
Female actually,
Everyone says that. Fuck , even I told a guy that this was the way to meet new people, and possibly women (since bumble wasn't working out for him) . And he's still struggling.
So seriously, how to beat loneliness in bangalore.
Curious, you don't want to try bumble?
I have a theory, might be completely wrong.
Outside of relationships/dating, due to current social constructs, working women find it difficult to socialize than men on average.
The low sex ratio as soon as you step out of home (men dominated world) leads that there are very rare avenues where women find it as comfortable (and safe, unawkward) as men do in general. May make many women stay indoors unless they are forced to go out. Whatever attention a women gets, only happens to be in the context of dating.
The only solution to this is to develop channels (first online like WA groups then gradually offline like clubs, ladies nights).
Thats actually very true . Everybody at my work is a guy. So one time -
So I'm new to my current org and I was taking help and KTs from one guy and then I overheard his " friends/colleagues" later, basically it was "simping for the dumb chick" kind of joke. Instantly stopped asking for help. Made onboarding a little bit slower but that's okay. Wouldn't happen amongst guys I think.
Again, I'm not saying I want to date any of these people. I just thought I'd talk a little. And that got weird.
But at the same time I don't want to be stuck attending ladies only nights on a WhatsApp channel. Thats weird too.
So corporate kind of sucks balls because it's very male dominated.
Yes. That instance sucked.
Buy a console and play games.
The new Spiderman game is nice.
moye moye
Me too! Female and non-engineer. I'm in BLR too and absolutely agree that it's tougher for women to make just friends in the corporate world!
Weekend Getaways(Treks), Writing, Exploring cuisines, Cooking, Finance, interesting Meetups & Photography (which I'm learning now) are some of the areas where I ponder upon.
You can check these out as well! You'll surely get new & interesting peeps. ☮️
