I am one and I have trouble always grew up asking parents, permission, rules
but some decisions need to be taken on own, even smallest but the continuous overthinking complicates it further
Most of the time, I think the eldest ones are test subjects. Me. Make a terrible decision, and create a learning example!
Yea, parents are learning too. They are parents for the first time, no prior experience
It’s not about being a parent for the first time. But not having experienced the same thing.
For example post 12th what sub shall I choose. No one was there to tell, I researched and chose. They are there to support.
Shall I go outside the city for job? Will be it be good to stay at native or maybe go to capital city and see and explore. They don’t know the field, hence are helpless to provide a comment.
Now since we know the bits and bytes about it, I can tell my younger ones with great details.
Holy hell, this is kinda true. The younger sibling gets the hall pass because you already have set the precedent so parents are chiller.
No, I am a quicker & better decision-maker than my younger sis.
Being an elder child, most of the time parents trust your decisions too
Not the major ones, the little ones
Buying red or green, too many food options, should I stand in queue or wait till it disperses, etc
Hmm. Maybe I should start a course on this. Or a LifeTech startup.
No siblings, yet happens with me as well!
Sometimes it's about the environment, and I realised it later
True. I thought its only my feeling.
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