Should I propose my Friend?
During my PG times I got attached to one of my friend. Then later after completing PF she move to Bangalore and I move to Chennai, but still we are good friends. Now her parents is forcing her to get married. But she is not okay for marriage. She is having fear of getting married. But I have feel now that am gone a miss her after marriage.
She was a very nice girl. She knows everything about me and I know about her. Now am thinking why can’t we both get marry.
Honestly, I didn’t had such thoughts for last 4 years. I would say that I have this feel from last 2 months.
I know she is not have any thoughts like that. Her parents also won’t accept. Her father will kill me. He has almost killed one of his related for love marriage.
So need suggestions..
Share your feelings with her immediately. If you take time then might you can miss her. Once her acceptance then you both take time to accept by your parents!. Best of luck 😊
Thanks for your words bro ..! I was in confused state of mind
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
I would say … just don’t go for a silly audio call !! Get her on a video call or record a beautiful proposal video for her with extraordinary elevated proposal words… Be confident, be gentleman and get her buy in !! And please let me know the results !! Best wishes brother 🤝
Yes bro go Propose her , don't wait. I know you might be a bit nervous, but we have got one life. You both are good friends since long and you know so much about each other so don't worry about what she is gonna say and all... Look, either she is going to say yes or no. Or another thing she might say is I am not sure and all.. If she says that , then tell her, comfort her with all the affection that you have for her. Fight for her, don't let her think that she is alone on this war. Be with her, be her support system, make her understand why she should love and marry you, not with a force but with an understanding, if she is unwilling then let it be, because love is something that we can't force on anyone, but if she is willing but afraid, kiss her forehead and tell her that, Just say yes and I'll take care of everything else, fight for this. Don't be afraid of her Dad as well, do everything to make him understand face to face as to why you are the ideal son in-law and how beautifully you can take care of his daughter. Give him legit proper comfortable and satisfactory reasons that will compel him to agree to this marriage between you and her. Down the line, when you will be very old, you might regret it later, that what if I tried very much and I could've succeeded in that but because I was a bit afraid I backed off.. so fight now than to regret later.
ALL THE BEST CHAMP !!!
Okay bro understood. Thank you for your time and such valuable words
Finally done..! Negative outcome..!
I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy(she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She mentioned that she didn’t told me , because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Propose to her "NOW", Don't wait up (Do it in person if possible)
Be ready for "Yes, No " both
Never leave anything for regret
All the best
Yeah bro, am also thinking the same
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Long distance doesn’t work nowdays..give more time if you still feel the same then and if same you are receiving from other end then only go ahead .. be with someone who loves you not with the one whom you love.. personal experience 🫡💯💯💯💯💯💯
Okay bro .. I will take this 🙂
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Propose her in person or in call. If you delay, you might regret later.
Sure bro 😎
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Go fast ....I won't say to propose to her...but confess to her.....else u will regret and company may have to pay 4 times ur CTC.....🤣🤣
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Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Telling from my experience, you would get rejected initially. But if she is really interested, she would eventually accept it. And knowing each other for a long time is OK, but eventually it comes down to how much effort you both will be putting into each other.
And it's good to share your feelings immediately. You don't know what lies in the future.
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
Go for it,or regret for the rest of your life!!
Okay bro 😎
Finally done…! Negative outcome…! I was conveying my feeling over call. She understood it and she mentioned she is having feeling with another guy (she mentioned not to ask the name or any other thing. Probably one of her UG Frnd). She mentioned they both have the feeling, but she mention it won’t go as that person is not having the stable situation. They both understand it and they are trying to come out of it, but she mentioned she can’t and that the reason she is ignoring her parents proposal.
She was giving me this hint for last 10 days. She mentioned that she didn’t told me, because of I know that she thinks I might stop speaking to her.
Even now she mention, she is not sure if I call her tomorrow.
But anyway Thank you bro for your words… Atleast now am clear!🙂
