JumpyMochi
JumpyMochi

Should I marry?

I am a 30-year-old male with a monthly salary of ₹80k. I've never been fell in love with anyone or you can say that I didn't have any girl friend in my past. Now at this age my family is giving me pressure to get marry. So, I'm bit confused What should I do. There are lots of questions coming in my mind. Is it financially wise for me to get married at this stage? Can I make any girl happy ? What kind Of girl should I choose ?

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PrancingMochi
PrancingMochi

Kar le bhai society waale randwa bolte hain nahi toh , dont marry if you are asexual , saint or a millionaire who can hire hookers .

Depends on the type too , with age loneliness creeps in even for introverts

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

Society ke bolne se kya hota hai bro...society ka toh kaam hi bolna...decision Society ko dekh kar kabhi lene nhi chahiye🫡

FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

Don’t be in a rush to get married, if you’re not sure if you’re ready.

You can wait for a few more years, and try dating and having 1-2 relationships to gain better clarity on what you are looking for. Then you can take the decision to get married with more information and better clarity.

SwirlyWaffle
SwirlyWaffle

Pahale estamaal kare fir viswas kare

You should have clarity at this age. You experienced 30 years of life almost half

PrancingPenguin
PrancingPenguin

Don't get married!

FuzzySushi
FuzzySushi

I don't think money should be an issue, as long as you have the will to grow.

Just make sure you actually want to get married.

We can't tell you what kind of girl you should choose, we don't even know you? A woman isn't a product.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

All I can say is having kids is financially brutal if you are planning to live in Tier 1 cities. So make the choice wisely

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

explore till 34 you’re in prime if you maintained physically rest all gucci

GoofyPickle
GoofyPickle

Fyi, there is no finance wise a suitable age to get married. You will always feel a bit lacky in case of money

PeppyDonut
PeppyDonut

No

FluffyWalrus
FluffyWalrus
EY5d

Two options:

  1. Focus on yourself and at least try to make twice the monthly income you have right now within 1 year, spend your quality time with yourself then marry in 32.
  2. Marry if you find a partner syncing well with you but don't have children for 3-4 years. Here as well earn hard and explore the world together before having children and then continue the life like a happy family later
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