ZoomyBurrito
ZoomyBurrito

Should I buy a gift at the first meeting for arrange marriage?

Hi folks, Little background, I, 25 M, belong to conservative practising family and I am going to see a girl for arrange marriage, most probably with my family in same village.

I don't know much about girl's family as I am not well informed about my village, most probably they also are conservative. I haven't seen girl we have just exchanged biodata.

Should I buy a gift for her or will it be too awkward?

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FuzzyMarshmallow
FuzzyMarshmallow

Not at all bro , giving gift is a sign that your are sure about her , don't give hopes , first finalize it then the rest of your life you have to do this only

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

+1

WigglyCupcake
WigglyCupcake

Agree

CosmicBiscuit
CosmicBiscuit

If it is first meeting. Avoid giving gift but after meeting if u feel something something for her then later on you can give

DizzyPickle
DizzyPickle
HCL3mo

I gifted.

I am from village and I got gift for her family not her. They're impressed and stubborn to make this marriage happen even after she said NO. Now I am suffering.

So don't give any gift in starting and watch how she reacts. That's how she is going to react in your down time

SquishyNarwhal
SquishyNarwhal

You're just meeting a girl. Why are you buying gift?

ZoomyBurrito
ZoomyBurrito

Meeting for the first time.

MagicalCupcake
MagicalCupcake

Sweets/dry fruits

SillyNoodle
SillyNoodle
TCS3mo

I don't know how it's done in villages.
But in cities, families visiting someone's house bring sweets,dry fruits, or a gift hamper.. anything of that sort.

And it's a good impression if the guy brings some flowers. Most Women like flowers.

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