FuzzyPenguin
FuzzyPenguin

Should I ask her out ?

Ok, so there's a girl I hv always liked from my college days. Initially we started out fighting all the time. Overtime, our fights stopped and we speak normally now. Somewhere in between the fights I developed a crush on her.

After college, we both joined separate companies, still I tried to stay in touch in with her. Never told her about my feelings for 2 reasons. Reason 1: I didn't know what she felt. I did not want to put unnecessary complications in her lyf and so stayed happy being her friend. Reason 2: I felt I wasn't ready. I was immature, rash and didn't know how to speak with ppl with respect. Also my salary was low.

But now, I hv a job offer from my dream company with ₹1L per month in hand. And I've worked very hard to improve my personality and now I hv learnt to be respected and mature person.

Should I go for her ? Or move on ?

It's been 3 months since I last spoke to her. I tried getting back in touch with her last week, she just replies to my msgs. She never starts the conversations, replies to me after hours. I can see she comes online for 5 mins, but never replies to me. I am stuck whether to tell her my feelings or just silently move on ?

25d ago
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DancingUnicorn
DancingUnicorn

answer is always no if u don’t ask for it

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

Ask, knowing the answer is better that regrets. Anyways your friendship seems fading away, so no harm

FuzzyPenguin
FuzzyPenguin

This really does seem like the only way forward now 🙂

PrancingPanda
PrancingPanda

Answer will still be no if you ask her ONLINE, see if it’s possible to meet her in person on a group trip etc. and then ask her out. See until you start talking to her there’s almost 0 chance. Talk and then convey your feelings.

FuzzyPenguin
FuzzyPenguin

Do u think I should directly jump into it ? 🤔

Or meet 2 or 3 times b4 opening up ?

PrancingPanda
PrancingPanda

Please Meet 2-3 times atleast, 1 trip of many days can help too

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

Yoe?

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

Ctc ?

FuzzyPenguin
FuzzyPenguin

2.5 yrs approx YOE

JazzyBanana
JazzyBanana

Boys hesitate to propose, but a real man looks into her eyes and expresses his feelings. So ask yourself, Are you a boy or a man?

move on buddy, she is just not into you..

FuzzyRaccoon
FuzzyRaccoon

This is no entry signal, respect it and move on.

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

lmfao ask her iut

PrancingPanda
PrancingPanda

Also, ask her if she has a bf and if not, proceed to ask her what kind of guy does she like what all does she want from a guy specifically- the actions, the personality etc. and then whenever you meet demonstrate those exactly as she wished to atleast give her hints before you go ahead and soeak the truth

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Find out her relationship status and ask her

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