She messaged after 10 months
We broke up last year in November because of her XYZ reasons. She wanted to break up but I didn't so I tried a bit but she was very sticky to her decision.
It was hard for me like didn't had good job and things were scattered here & there. But I did let her go, and decided to never contact her again. I did stalk her once in a while for 1-2 months but never wanted to text her. Then I started doing my things, better job, gym new hobbies. I stay away from woman now.
Then i actually almost forgot her when one fine night she dropped a hi. I don't know should I talk to her again? Even though I like her, I don't like her. I don't wanna talk to someone who left at their own comfort. I also wanna know why she came back now but I think talking to her is waste of time.
Even though I like women, I try staying away from romantic relationships, because it cost a lot. It's like a full time job ngl. I have not dated anyone after her and not looking forward to..
Would love to hear from other women and their response on this.
Never turn up to your ex. Long story short my ex dropped me msg and asking me to get married, checking up if I was dating someone new because that's his mind set after him I have had difficult time to interact with any man anyways he got married after few days. Soo yeah once they took the door to leave do not open the door again although it will be tempting but no no no don't waste ur time and energy for someone who doesn't deserve it
So true man. These people can't even stick to their own decisions how are they gonna stick with you during hard phases in life
I know a lot of people say don’t talk to them again, I want to confirm that’s indeed true. She probably went out to explore and women never leave without having options set already even before breaking up with you. When that ended/didn’t work out like she expected, she wants to come back to the comfort of your relationship. Not because she misses you, but because she can’t be alone now that her venture has ended. Never ever let them back again. Even if your mind tells you otherwise and finds ways to convince you to let them through.
Not every woman is like that goes around with options and things.
Didi had her emotions flaring up one random blue moon.
Completely ignore or get ditched again that too with greater intensity.
Block
She is in her p mood swings. Move on don’t text her
Don’t
Ignore and continue to enjoy your life
Could be many reasons
- She just wants to check on u like how u reach doing
- She had a breakup n wants to reconcile with u
- She is just lonely
In any case don't get back with her if she left u earlier.
