[self introspection] Why are you single ?

Girls like bad boys.

Idk bro. I’m 25 and after work in a day, It just feel void in life. I’ve lost the hope. If I ever get a girl in my I’ll believe that miracle happens. The most important thing that scares me is trust. How can I trust a girl in today’s times. Everyday I see on social media/news of false rape cases, false dowry cases etc etc. Its not like I don’t want to approach a girl but then aforementioned things comes to my mind and I stop myself. Bro I don’t want to make my life a shit show.
Apart from these, one more thing I’m confused is that where do I go to find a girl? I’m just blank here and whom to trust? I don’t use dating apps, not even an account there. And I don’t want to go there. Waha prem nhi kutch aur hi milta hai. And there are lot of things also which I can’t say here. Bas isiliye chup chap kaam karta hun and don’t think about all these. Because I’ve realised that I’ve missed the train.

Just sharing it here what I used to think when I was single

I didn't find any man who liked my childish nature 😹🐾🐈

It's very difficult to find good guys who are genuinely interested in a relationship, most of them want a casual thing. Plus no one wants to invest time and effort to get to know you. A bond doesn't get built just cos you swiped on my profile 🤦🏻‍♀️

I am as I feel I want to work more on myself to get to an ideal version I envision, and I feel at this point, this isn't the right thing for me to consciously target

No one ever proposed proposed me.

Boys like personality
Girls like personality, pay check, Car, property, boys with no sisters, can cook for them, can clean for them, can do household chores.

It's just too much work? I have liked being single and the more people I see around with relationshipsthe more it solidifies my stance.

Has nothing to do with girls or dating apps or whatever, I just have grown to like peace that I've created for myself. Sure maybe having a partner would improve my quality of life and my perspective but I'm really not willing to put that on a chance given how most things are going really well for me.

Domination and childish behaviour of girls.

If we talk about empowered working independent women, they have a lot of men going around them even when they don't have much to bring to the table i beleive.

Most of the people are tired and they are looking for somebody to treat them like kids, takes care of everything around them from ordering food , pick and drop services , etc.. all the time. As an individual I have limited time and I am looking for a partner not a kid at this stage of life these childish acts feels cute for a while and feels like a huge responsibility or burden otherwise.

Also them women who are there on dating sites, they just don't want to take out their wallet, i can not sponser multiple 1st dates 🥲🥲 for no reason at all.

Earlier asking out in person was different, the boy likes the girl, meets/chat a few time then take out for dinner etc..., here the dating site thing is more of an arranged setup you are going out on date with with me because you also swiped and liked after the chat or call.. so we both have the equal responsibilities of planning and sponsoring i guess