TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student

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I, moved into a flat with a friend. Now slowly his girlfriend has become a permanent resident. This is not something I feel comfortable with. What do I do?

4mo ago
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ZestyJellybean
ZestyJellybean

bring your mom, assert dominance

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

Good idea 🤣

GigglyCupcake
GigglyCupcake

Best answer

SnoozyBanana
SnoozyBanana
WPP4mo

Important questions, is she paying

If yes then you should move out. Maybe they are not able to tell you directly.

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

She is not paying. And I found the house. It's difficult getting a decent house for students.

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

Also we are in a small town where live-ins are not appreciated. It's just that the owner stays in the city.

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato
TCS4mo

Vacate room, be peaceful with yourself

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

I would have, if I could. It's not easy getting a decent room for students in a small town.

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato
TCS4mo

Instead of staying, uncomfortable like that, i would join other roommates in that area. Stay away from such kind of useless fellows, who don't understand other feelings and always greedy in taking others personal space.

don't you have college hostel ? What college and town it is.

And to your roommate, my message: how can you bring your girlfriend, don't you have common sense. If you love, living together, etc, that's your choice to ruin your life, how can you make others uncomfortable.

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

Live normally, bring your friends... Utilize freely... Let them feel uncomfortable

SquishyMochi
SquishyMochi

As long as they have a different room, what is bothering you?

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

We are sharing other space like kitchen washroom etc, and they are not married, for which I can't bring in my other friends. They, me and all other friends are studying in same place.

ZoomySushi
ZoomySushi

Why cant you bring other friends? I think she might be hot and making you feel uncomfortable / jeleous

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

Hit on his girlfriend

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

best

FluffyQuokka
FluffyQuokka

Why don’t you tell your friend that you are not comfortable with she living with you guys? Tell it politely to him that you are feeling uncomfortable now and it’s better if she finds another place for herself/they move out if they don’t want to live separately ?

FluffyNarwhal
FluffyNarwhal

Ask her to take her friends on flat.. matter manage 😅

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato
Student4mo

She has no friends

SwirlyBanana
SwirlyBanana

Move out and be a single resident wherever you want and get yourself a girlfriend if you feel so ...

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
PWC4mo

Sirf nikkar pahan kar ghar me raho....bolo garmi bahut hai yaar....pb. will get solve within a week

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