Saw an acquaintance using bumble. The men in profiles literally look highly successful, From IIT, IIM, NIFT , Founder and what not.
It was really raining overqualified guys on the platform.
Felt like real waste for the first time and thought that hot shot guys like them couldnt land a date, a commoner is out of question.
What do you all say guys ???? That platform instantly makes me introspect where I failed in life.
Most of the overqualified men aren't real in life. Everyone is using IIT/IIM tag when then Don't have one
Its a numbers game. Iv had a decade long experience with these apps. You got to be ultra patient and have your soft skills A game available.
Dating via dating apps is flawed. It's designed to keep you single by showing you better prospects (for girls) and hiding you from the pack until you pay heavily sometimes even that doesn't work (for guys). So just give up already on them for your own sanity. There are numerous studies/TED talks over the internet to prove this.
Instead, go try out talking to people irl, meet people at some hobby class and build something from there. This has worked so much better for me than any of the dating apps (not that they haven't worked, the success rate is better irl).
Just be confident and have good conversation skills and be slightly good looking (lol).
Bumble me aadhar verification lga du?
Bumble only uses these insecurities to itās favor. Even having a IIT IIM tag in Bangalore is pretty common and girls donāt want whatās highly available, so maybe in some other place it would create a lot of matches but not in Bangalore. Also Bumbleās profit is not in you getting a match or a partner but you using those compliments and other boost or premium features. Using them also seems like a waste of money apart from compliments which stood you out from other profiles up until few months back but now they made changes to hide it too.
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Sab IIT IIM kuch nai hota ....baad me pata chalta hai sab Coursera aur udemy ke courses they
The ratio of men to women on dating apps is 93:1 and itās worse in India. So thereāll always be men from all backgrounds. Should ask them for aadhar card and company incorporation number :)
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