SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle

Rich dad and poor day (Personal Story)

Hi friend,

I am sharing my personal life with you all.

Kindly address me what to do,

I was born in poor family, my father was a small business man my mother was a house wife.

In 90s my grandfather was in power to rule in our house no one can disobey his decision.

My father is two brothers. Big brother has no childers. I am the only son between them.

One day my grandfather decide to give me to big brother. At the age of 3 I was away with my real mom.

They happily treat me as a our child, One day I also called him papa and mummy. Don't know how but I did it, takes courage 💪 for the first time and then it was usual.

They spend around 18 years on my care. I become adult now and goes for higher study and leave the town where they stay.

So I am the link between both of my parents they both want me, somewhere there is a compition between them for me, not sure.

My real father always supports me that your first priority is your big father and mother and Then me and your real mother.

I was connected with my real father and mother after so much when I was come for further study.

I can not explain you the hole story guys. But I am connected to both of them. If they divided or share me its not there fault it was my grade father fault.

I always make sure that there bonds become strong day by day. But some conflict were there between them.

My question is to you guys is that, I was stuck into one thing the empire my big father and mother has created should I aspect that they should give me or not. My real father says don't think such things. You will not get anything. My real father is so negative person. But he says what ever is mine you get after me. I am earning well in my life and want to create my own empire. But if they give there property it boost my speed for more. My big mother is close to her family. I think her decision will be last.

What to do your opinion 🤔

Life is short live it or dead.

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ZestyDonut
ZestyDonut
Oracle13mo

Like your real father, I'd also suggest you to not expect it. However if you want a clear answer, talk to your big parents once. Don't ask for it, just ask what are their plans, so that you can have a clarity and make your plans accordingly.

SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle
TCS13mo

Thanks brother 😊 but if I ask does they feel that I don't lover them and wants just there money

FluffyPotato
FluffyPotato
TCS13mo

I think you should not expect, if you expect it , you wont be free on your thoughts and actions. Try to build your own empire even if it is slow as well.

Be strong as a family and share your possible time and love towards them as their only child.

SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle
TCS13mo

I give my best love to both my parents 😊

DerpyJellybean
DerpyJellybean
Eloelo13mo

As a mother of 1 year old I can’t imagine what your parents must have gone through when grand paa shifted you from there. My advice will be good with big folks but give special attention and love to your Original parents they have missed on so much so try to give them that comfort. Also about the money eventually you’ll get everything I guess so take it slow focus on your career right now.

SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle
TCS13mo

Well said as a mother I do love my mom so much but I am little shy with my mom to express my love 💓

JumpyTaco
JumpyTaco

This is actually so sad that it hurts me

JazzyUnicorn
JazzyUnicorn
HCL13mo

Poor family to Empire.. bro first tell us about this transition of your family..

SillyWaffle
SillyWaffle
TCS13mo

Bro are you from income-tax department

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