WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

Relationships nowadays don't last much due to lots of things or I am wrong

I am 23M , focusing on building my career, planning masters but somewhere in my heart i feel like maybe i need someone with who i can have an Amazing bond , lasting relationships , compatibility but other side of my mind says its absolute stupidity as people nowadays have lots of options , thanks to social media, doing breaks-ups became a joke due to several smaller things. Like I know i have long way to go , I am just 23 but observing all these things even don't allow me to do anything in that particular direction and even sometimes I think that if everyone is going through same then what's the point of even getting married because it's also like a gamble where you can't expect that you are gonna end up with good partner

19mo ago
PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

So actually I know all of my relationship's gonna be Awesome (and I feel this 1000%). I have full clarity on this. And hence, even if the wind of world is not so good, girls are not soo nice/descent or bla bla bla reasons. Even after that, I know I am gonna get wonderful personal with whom I gonna spend my life ☺️✨💕. Sometimes people say "you are soo good inside out that's why we know you will get wonderful girl who gonna love and like you to the extreme levels (just the way you desire)". My response always is I know that I gonna have her. So buddy, think positive and also be a good potential partner. Some tips :-

  1. Man up - Be responsible etc
  2. Start learning about EQ - Practice EQ with ladies of your house and female friends( if any)
  3. Understand how women communicate
  4. Have hobbies, interests and explore different sides of your natural personality - do this for yourself and not to attract a girl
  5. Focus on your health and mindset - Everyone wants someone who can think long term and can act accordingly. Develop long term mindset while also keeping in balance with present.
WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

Following 2 points already and will surely follow all 5

JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

You sound like such a green flag @CharmingCalmMan . We are all richer by your presence. Single by any chance 🤩?

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Mere bhai. Ek bs baat boluga. We get what we look for. We get what we continously ask for. Universe is listening to us every second and right now you are saying "relationships are not soo good and I am confused". Hence universe is going to send you that itself.

Afcourse you already know what is law of attraction but bro, knowing something vs seeing something in action is different. I would highly suggest you to start making a small change in life - start using positive words for everything, in every sentence. You will see it working in action. And after you change your words, it will change your feelings too, and the reality at end.

The people who wanna fight with me for above comment, let me tell you - I am occupied and I only reply to good and positive comments.

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

Yep i already know law of attraction, may be god has for plans for me at the end if my vibrations.will synchronise with universe ,hope so

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Remove if. Just believe in it 😊 Love you bro. Take care

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Bro pyaar wyaar may kario. Bekar h.. demag ka or dahi hoga

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

I know bro , ab wo zamaane rawaane ho gye , it isn't like meaningful relationships don't exist, they do but very few

FuzzyBoba
FuzzyBoba

Meaningful relationships are hard to find. From past experiences everything is transactional.

FluffyPretzel
FluffyPretzel

Keep your doors open for first timers. Meaning whoever wants to come in your life let them in and whoever wants to go let them go. It's both for friends and a relationship.

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

Yep , exploring the dynamics will teach me a lot of things

JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

Don't think so much buddy. Take one step at a time. Life is beautiful. I know people who dated only one person and married them happily. So it is possible. On the other hand, Good things have come to me from relationships and breakups too. I learnt so so many things from the partners I have had. I am wiser and more beautiful for it. Take it one step at a time and enjoy where you are. If you worry so much about the future you may miss out on enjoying the present. It is going to be a wonderful life regardless.

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

True

PerkyBiscuit
PerkyBiscuit

You are 23 There's more to see before forever starts

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
19mo

Yep

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