DizzyNoodle
DizzyNoodle

Relationship hurdle

Heyaaa i have a random doubt if u r in relationship and u r traumized and dealing a lot of hell and u r close to suicide and u r in long distance but u saw that ur boyfriend consoling you but at the same time he is doing online shopping and roaming with his friend? Will you continue with that guy?

12mo ago
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ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba
Toddle12mo

Bhai tumhari relationship, thodi responsibility lo. Log faltu baatein karenge, and tum idhar udhar behek jaoge. Isse acha ye hai ki khud socho

DizzyNoodle
DizzyNoodle
IBM12mo

Tried to think but i m feeling devastated

ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba
Toddle12mo

Never make decisions when feeling devastated, for one.
I'll say sort it out with your partner, you are in a relationship for some reason, so just communicate?

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

It would help to find a hobby or an occupation so that your mind doesnt wander or mis-interpret normal things as "relationship hurdles".

Relationships thrive on trust. If you cant trust them, its better not to continue as they deserve better.

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda
IBM12mo

Can’t he have is life or something? You have issues, that’s good and you have expressed them, if he listened and consoled you, and is empathetic about it, why should he not do what he feels like? Y’all are not married and not living together, so let him have his life

DizzyNoodle
DizzyNoodle
IBM12mo

I didn't say that

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda
IBM12mo

Well, do not break up with him, that’s what I’m tryna say. Unless he being toxic, be with him.

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

If you are absolutely sure that he knew exactly how you were feeling and his consolation felt like a formality then you can discuss with him how you felt about it.

If you feel like it's still happening then you can probably move on from him.

Otherwise if he wasn't 100% clear about how you were feeling or if his consolation was genuine then try to understand that he has to take care of other things in life as well and he is trying his best to balance all.

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