Realizing What I Missed
I come from a lower middle class family. When I was in college, I never felt the need to be with someone because my only goal at that time was to build my career. I had opportunities to be in a relationship, but it was never my priority.
Now that I’m doing fairly well in my career, I feel like something is missing. It feels lonely at times, with no one to truly listen to me. I have one or two friends, but they are also busy with their own lives.
Looking back, I realize that I was so focused on reaching my goal that I neglected many experiences I should have had. I always thought I would be happy once I achieve my goals, but now I understand it was never just about the destination, but the journey itself.
Do you also feel that it's harder to fall in love in mid 20's ?
Yeah, I feel like I can’t connect with people the way I could when I was younger. Now, my analytical brain overpowers my feelings. Everything has its own time, and once it passes, it just doesn’t feel the same.
I just keep praying it not to be true and fall in love with my wife after marriage at least.
Because I've missed opportunities when I was younger but contrary to you, I was indulged in a nasty addiction.
She always wanted to talk to me but I wanted to be left alone.
Plus 1,I can see myself in the post, Always craving for some connection, whether it be love, romance etc..... Having people closer to us not just for the heart is really important nowadays for spending life happier and healthier is what I feel, which is becoming difficult - specifically to mention, having a closer and happy bond with opposite gender makes life and health effortless.
I second that
It was never the case brother. I also come from lower middle class family. But i think differently. I worked my ass hard to be who i am, similar to you I also had many opportunities to end up in relationship. But i always ignored question. If you ask me if i regret the decision, nope not a chance. If by any reasons ( irrespective of relationship) if i didn't end up where I am. I will be in much bad mental state. I tried to distance myself from everything which could mess up my brain and relationship being one of them. Now for sure i don't have a relationship but that is completely fine for me, but my mental state is good.
Don’t regret those days, those days made you who you are today and remember if you are feeling alone, not getting partner etc, run behind money and health. These two things will solve 90% of your issues
Even i am running behind package and all,i feel once i get that much package i will be happy,and do other things later.but that last line hit me hard.
All I’ve learned from my mistakes is that balance is the key. In pursuit of something that seems shiny from a distance, we often overlook the little things that could bring us true joy.
Kutta paal le bhai..no one shud be left alone :)
It's ok. Life doesn't give everything to everyone. For some things come late. if getting a partner is priority now, keep your mind open. There will be so many people who are also looking for partners. Age plays role But only upto a certain limit. I know a lot of happy couples with huge agr difference. Don't let the hope die. All the best ❤️❤️❤️
Last line brother
