SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin
4mo

Question to brahmin girls?

Do you marry a boy who is from different caste considering he is earning good? Or do you follow our principles?

4mo ago
SwirlyWaffle
SwirlyWaffle

"Our principles" I rest my case.

ZippyPenguin
ZippyPenguin
Student
4mo

Gave me the yikes. We are never gonna get rid of casteism

WigglyQuokka
WigglyQuokka

A brahmin girl came -> she read a few of your replies -> she smiled -> she found principles mismatch -> she scrolled.

PS: I'm happy for her.

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

Good for her that she has such mindset🙂

SnoozyCoconut
SnoozyCoconut

Question to you why you want to marry only "Brahmin" girl? Do you feel that by doing so you are winning some trophy? I don't like your mindset

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

It is fine I am not born in this world to satisfy everyone

CosmicCoconut
CosmicCoconut

Like you said in one of your replies, You are not born to satisfy everyone then you already have the answer for this question. If you can't take an opinion of someone then asking it on an open public forum is not the way to deal with your doubts. Why do you want to know other people's take on whether they will follow principles or marry a boy they like.! Both ways you are not going to satisfy everyone.

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

Bhai agar class mein pucha jaye ki kitne bacchon ke apple laya hai to banana wale bhi uthate hain kya?

JumpyBiscuit
JumpyBiscuit

Lol your question makes it look like Brahmin girls are discriminating against different castes.

In reality, it's you who are discriminating and want to divide people based on caste. It's shameful.

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

Why not I will divide? I have suffered that's why I am dividing. It's shameful for our side of girls to even talk to sc/st community leave about marriage.

BubblyMuffin
BubblyMuffin

Hi.
I just want to say that you are a twat.
Ok bye.

FluffyBurrito
FluffyBurrito

Who gives a fu*k? Marry whomever you love. Nationality, Religion and Caste, none of these should matter.

BubblyWaffle
BubblyWaffle

What are these principles?

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

You are not from that category you won't understand

SwirlyBiscuit
SwirlyBiscuit

2 classmates of mine:

  1. Brahmin girl- SC/ST boy. Were in relationship since 10th. Happily married now for 3 years - No opposition from either sides.
  2. Brahmin girl- Gowda boy. Opposition from boy family.

My case -not married yet -opposition from my sibling because boy is non-brahmin. Boy is rich.

To answer your question, everyone marries above their economic class usually. And the impact of caste falls as your age grows. Also, when you talk about principles, Brahmins usually dont have many other case people in their circle. So its difficult unless kids study with highly diverse group.

In my case, my school, neighbourhood were all brahmin brahmin...so we grew up with no idea that other castes exist. Or the concept of upper and lower because our parents treat all visitors equally. Even among Brahmins there are some superior groups who supress other Brahmins. Usually we used to avoid them.

SparklyWalrus
SparklyWalrus
4mo

While scrolling I came through few non sense posts and ignored but it had one thing in common your user ID. Hope you get over the pain you are dealing with.

SparklyPenguin
SparklyPenguin

For you it's non sense for me it's important

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