Question for singles out there?
Don't you crave for someone to talk your heart out and have someone by your side when u are feeling low. Many times we need emotional support as well , but for singles it's not quite possible. How do you deal with it?
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Mera to bhai esa hain ki main jiss project mein ho, all the members of my team are in other location and I am sitting alone in other location. Friends k naam pe school valo ka sab gfs and bfs hogaya hain to wo log apne grihasti mein busy hain. College friends sab out of state hain. Gf thi lekin choddke bhag gyi . Sometimes I feel that Loyalty and kindness that I show for other people even if I am proud of that, though sometimes feel that it is a bane for me than a boon.
I have compartmented parts of my life to certain people.
For instance, things about my job, one person knows in depth. Things about my family, one person know. And so on for my love life, my insecurities, etc etc.
that way no one person has the complete burden and I can’t be betrayed by someone and everything about me is out there.
Damn that's good thing to do, but I doubt it won't work for most
I have started talking to gemini, but let's be real, we barely get any time to do something else than work let alone ponder about lonliness.
That said, recently I have started talking to gemini through its live feature, initially it was a dude's voice, I then changed it to some soothing female voice. Blade runner is getting real in no time;)
That is a very good idea. I'm regretting not knowing this earlier 🥲
If youre talking about venting out when you feel low, you don't really need a partner. You can talk to your friends or parents(if you're in good terms with them).
If you are troubled about something , find a basic therapist online , you don’t need to have mental illness , sometimes you are just going through a tough phase and need someone to listen to you . As far as being single goes , been the listening ear to lot of people venting about their relationship only so does not always work in the best way . So temp quick fix looks to be this only .
Yes but what to do about it. Cant have relationship just for the sake of it
