PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Public insta account with 14k Follower as an arranged marriage proposal - big NO

So my parents have been searching for a girl for my marriage. So they have received a rishta through a relative. That girl has done bsc and is currently working as a teacher in some pvt school.

Lately while doing the social media vetting we were shocked that she has a public instagram account with 14k followers. And even she is hyper active in making reels.

While going through her profile I saw she has photos with many boys with comments being disabled on those particular posts.

Without any second thought we rejected her straight away by giving excuses related to astrology.

Was I right or wrong.....

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DancingPickle
DancingPickle

All these small town chicks want to escape to the metro cities via an earning husband. For them cities is all about fun and enjoyment where no one will judge them. They are not aware of the daily grind.

This is a typical pattern these days.

QuirkyJellybean
QuirkyJellybean

Brooo.. second post I have seen today who dodged a bullet … More power to you… Partyyyy 🎉🥂

GigglyPenguin
GigglyPenguin
TCS5mo

All comments here are list of incels women should avoid 🤡

QuirkyJellybean
QuirkyJellybean

Yeah… like your idea of disregarding every real life experience and painting ppl as incels while you yourself are an obnoxious, self-centred prat

PrancingBoba
PrancingBoba

If you were not comfortable with someone of that personality then your decision was right but it is worth thinking why having a public Instagram account shocked you. Or why are you judging her for pictures with boys - comments could be disabled because many losers who don’t have anything going for them could be misusing that platform. Unless the images made you uncomfortable it seems normal only.

WigglyNugget
WigglyNugget

Why simping here? 😂 Girls having a public account are more prone to all the ramifications possible, which is not suitable for a long sustaining marriage. She will be judged for being public - which era are you living in. 😂

PrancingBoba
PrancingBoba

What ramifications are those?

DancingLlama
DancingLlama

If she has done nothing wrong why did she disable her comments on the pictures with boys. You did the right decision

PrancingBoba
PrancingBoba

Things losers girls never speak to say on the internet

GigglyPenguin
GigglyPenguin
TCS5mo

The girl dodged a bullet by not marrying a clown like you 🤡. I hope she finds someone who appreciates unlike a pig like you and your family

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster
HCL5mo

Sure sir. May you get this kind of proposition and face the consequences ..(if you are not living under a rock)

GigglyPenguin
GigglyPenguin
TCS5mo

I will and won't be a pig like you and your family. Pretty sure you look like a pig in person.
Hope your profile gets outed and they see what kind of misogynist you are

WobblyRaccoon
WobblyRaccoon

She might be a good person you never know, why are you judging her for making reels, did she put any objectionable content or something to get quick views sort of? Some by behaviour are extrovert and wants to active on social media, does that mean they not a marriage material. Kya fukte ho raat ko

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster
HCL5mo

The problem is the way she has disabled the comments section for certain photos with different persons....

WobblyRaccoon
WobblyRaccoon

Photo hi hata deti chupana tha use to, rather than judging from profile just speak to her directly, atleast you will in better position to judge. One thing which other girls maybe can say it better would be, she might be wanting you give some red flags so that you don't even consider her in first place for some reason. In that case it's ok, you did right

WobblyPickle
WobblyPickle

Should have given the right reason as well. 😅

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama

The partner is saved

FluffyCoconut
FluffyCoconut

You should have asked this question directly to that girl... I can say you are too insecure about her insta posts. Whether that girl is good or bad is we don't know you are hiding her just because of some great posts. I don't understand how you're gonna be happy with your future wife with this insecure mindset

GoofyBanana
GoofyBanana

guy be like : i shouldn't have asked this question 🤣

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