Pseudo Virginity based question
In talks for marriage(arrange), initial reviews done from both the sides and it's positive so far. But after first meet, we both decided to meet quite a few times to say final 'yes' and hopefully both the families agreed to wait.
But I have a question which is kindof striking my head badly... I'm 27M.. I used to watch adult content on off for last 7-8 years.. it's kind of once a month and masturbation too that also same.. but given I was frustrated by my such deeds...it's been around a year I have not done anything of that sort...
I am thinking to tell her that this has been the history to be open and keep her informed.
Will it be the right thing do so? My mind says yes.. but I request opinions.
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Dude, that’s the dumbest thing you could do. Your porn or masturbation habits have nothing to do with your life with her after marriage.
Almost everyone in the world watches porn and masturbates, and more frequently than you think.
If you tell her this, and she rejects you, it will be justified. Because no way she would want to get married to anyone as clueless about the world as you. 😂
It’s the equivalent of telling your partner what your stool in toilet looks & smells like. No matter what your intent behind it, telling her about your masturbation habits will be justified cause for instant rejection, in recognition of your lack of common sense and social etiquette 😂
I won't disagree. I can be called a 'dumb' because I have this notion in my mind that it's only me and a very small chunk of our population is into it not 'almost everyone'.
I have felt the impact of watching that I find it difficult to have casual conversations especially with oppsites except unavoidable professional causes.
But anyway, I have never read about stats of how many people are into it. And till day I have considered this a bad deed.
I doubt if it comes under common sense and very specially under social etiquette though.
Thanks for emojis though!!!!!!
Don’t consider masturbation like bodycount bro.
Stop watching whatever podcast made you believe masturbation is sin. It's NOT. Really Odd advice but do watch OMG2. It talks about same topic and how the things that we don't talk about today were taught in schools in ancient India. Might change your mind about masturbation. But Anyways it's nothing bad and definitely not something to feel ashamed about. If you wanna have conversation about then you can talk about you being a virgin but that should also be done carefully. So just chill and don't think too much about it. If no advice helps then try masturbate once. Post nut clarity might help you 😅
Thanks for everything except the last two lines :)!
I dont get this why people make Masturbation something like grandiose or crime / taboo. It is your biology. There are more things give focus on life as well as discussing with partner.
For 'more things' -> yes definitely there are and that's why I said 'a question' which means out of all the questions I have this is one of them..not only..
Secondly, my thought for this was the way especially a girl is asked about virgin or not in some cases... And because I consider doing mast****tion as a bad habit.. that's why I thought to be open about that.. but knowing the fact its common..
Virgin is one thing.. but I used to consider forcefully throwing semen out is a bit less sinister thing but still wrong..
I beat my meat daily, even twice sometimes. I must have ejaculated even a hundred litres of cum over these last 5 years. Chill dude.
Nope... Please don't do it