
People who have “given up” on dating and relationships. Why?
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Have been on dating spree. Just not getting anyone who can match the vibe.
Dating apps are a sham. I’m going to optimize for the offline route now. It’s just weird to do anything offline these days
Yahan career aur job hai gaand lagi padi hai, dating kahan se karen. Ye BC kya paise dekh ke tech mai aa gaye, mechanical evergreen branch sahi thi 😂
Galat fehmi hai mere bhai
I seem to attract extroverts (because I'm mostly an introvert), but I can't have long term relationships with them.
Heart-broken a few times, broke a few hearts too. Don't want more of either.
Realised monogamy is difficult for me, but I'm not really into random hookups either because demisexual.
Choosing to be a hermit for now. Enough work on my plate.
Getting attached to someone, trusting them, investing so much energy, loving them so much only to receive none back, giving them so much support only to be alone when it's their turn, having so many expectations only to see them shattered, sacrificing time and your value for them just to see them turn into strangers? No, I would not be able to handle heartbreak. Also therapy is expensive
Therapy is indeed expensive
Had read the phrase in some old text. "नारी नारी ना कर बालक, नारी नर्क का द्वार।। खुश भी होगी तो क्या देगी, xx का द्वार।।"
It hadn't resonated that time, now after broken heart, have decided to not actively find dates.
I believe the entire catch is in actively looking. When you obsessively seek out “love” or “women” to date you make obvious blunders. You loose your ability to say NO to the red flags (however small either talk it out or say NO, never let them slide by)
But once, you’re chill, you’re on your own journey and you have found your solace and happiness (aka hobbies, routine, fixed other close personal relationships- family, friends etc) then you can let another person in your A-Team (goes w/o saying other person should be sorted in the aforementioned manner).
You can foster love and relationship in chaos, you can cruise thru chaos if you have a strong relationship. But, you must foster that relationship when the waters are SUPER f##king CALM!
This!
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