SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka

[Pattern] Noticed recently that more women have gone abroad to settle than Men...

I find it curious at least that in my undergrad batch, out of all the people who went to abroad 80% of them were women. What factors would contribute to that?

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FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle
Lowe's13mo

Freedom

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka
Gojek13mo

@Sleepypanda I think this is the likeliest answer.

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Freedom and safety at every stage of life...
Want to wear what you want and not be judged, you have an out.
You want to go out at night, you might get better safety and freedom. Best part, need not worry about running into someone who knows your family.
Unmarried, have the option to do what you want freely.
Married and ended up with toxic inlaws, here is an escape.
Believe it or not, better respect within the family when you come down to India.

Secondly, For the amount of tax you pay, you get much more.. Better quality of life, Better healthcare, better roads.

Thirdly, the probability of marrying a person you want rather than one that was forced on you. More time and space for love.

Finally, the possibility of settling in a foreign land as a citizen.. More powerful passport, more travel.

Overall I'd take in a second if I could 🥲

SwirlyPenguin
SwirlyPenguin

Diversity Hiring is one of them. I know many people who can't invert a binary tree get jobs abroad at MNCs

SqueakyWalrus
SqueakyWalrus
Student13mo

Non techie might be wondering about tree me bhi 'binary' hota kya 🤡

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

LMAO THIS IS SO TRUE!!

SqueakyWalrus
SqueakyWalrus
Student13mo

So let's get married to one such woman 🫰🏽

SqueakyWalrus
SqueakyWalrus
Student13mo

You have shit in between your ears. Clean it up.

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

such a grapist

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

on an average, they can take more risk compared to men, less pressure, less responsibilities

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka
Gojek13mo

Interesting

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

You mean family pressure and responsibilities?

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

goal diggers

DancingTaco
DancingTaco

They dig their own gold.

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

who's talking about gold ms feminist

ZestySushi
ZestySushi
EY13mo

They dont want to marry the shitty indian men like the ones trolling them in the thread 💀 But tbf, better career growth, running from shaadi pressure and other oppressive social norms are just some of the reasons I have heard

BubblyBiscuit
BubblyBiscuit

But they do in most cases, they do end up marrying an Indian. Other reasons are fair enough

ZestySushi
ZestySushi
EY13mo

Arre bhai emoji samjho. Thread mein baaki laundo ko troll kar raha tha.

SqueakyPenguin
SqueakyPenguin

Mera man jo karega na mein wahi karungi

SquishyBurrito
SquishyBurrito

Bhai tu Capgemini mein kaam karti hai

SqueakyPenguin
SqueakyPenguin

Mein unka POV bata raha hoon bhai

SnoozyWalrus
SnoozyWalrus

They simply want freedom . In india they face many problems. In abroad, they can be free and not judged . Men anyways have family tying them up so whichever country men go, responsibility will never leave them.

Also, women do inherently feel that a foreign residing indian is a good match.

And btw, escape from relatives also

DancingCupcake
DancingCupcake

Here are some 1 perceived safety, real safety doesn't matter, you can get killed in ohio but not groped, so 2 white skin, indians and their love for white skin 3 less responsibility
4 freedom to explore all facets of life with no judgement or spot on your character, do anything come back to India marry, spotless 5 tv internet and srk influence that foreign is good 6 better pay and good opportunity
7 curiosity to explore other cultures and live on her own

WobblyMuffin
WobblyMuffin

Most of the women i know went abroad are the ones who got married to NRI so even that's a good little thing going on

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