QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Partnership is about bringing out the best of one another and being supportive in the journey

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DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

I married my partner when we both weren’t earning much(parents are well-off). Went through thick and thin of life. We have grown together, being each other’s side.
Coming to the present, we have bought a home together 1.5 years back in Gurgaon and working towards our career goals earning decent♥️

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
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WobblyWalrus
WobblyWalrus

Kudos to you 👏

ZoomyHamster
ZoomyHamster

I married my husband solely because of how independent he was. At the time (5 years ago) his annual income was only 5 lpa, mine was 10lpa.

Both of us come from difficult backgrounds. Have been on our own since graduation, never went to parents for money- we have supported ourselves for the longest time ever. Since he said he has had a similar struggle, it struck a cord with me. He is one of the most understanding and empathetic men I have met. We both support our families (families are not well to do and need our support to function)
It’s been 5 years of marriage, we have a child- second on the way- recently got a small apartment on BLR and planning to get my in-laws to live with us by next year.

We have grown together as individuals in personal and professional lives! As of today, he earns more than me and I have had the privilege to sit back and relax during my second pregnancy despite the home loan. He is supporting us and both our families.

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

This is wholesome🙂

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Wow more power to you as you decided to marry him even though he was earning less than you at that time and you focused on other aspects.

You both are really fortunate to have supportive partners.

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Likh kar deta hoon... Koi Ladki aisa nahi karegi...

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

I did🥹

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

I smell viciousness here...

CosmicRaccoon
CosmicRaccoon

My wife wasn’t working by when we got married supported her for competitive exams during the first 2 years post marriage, after which she got a great job. I got laid off multiple times, and was jobless for a year she supported me during that time and our family.

It’s very hard to get partners who support each other at worst time. That relationship is meant to for lifelong

You are truly a gentleman bro. You supported your wife and your wife supported when you got laid off. That's what marriage is all about. On the other hand, I've seen guys who want their partner should earn high package just like them, giving high weightage to looks, rather than looking actual qualities like supporting, love and care.

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Awesome, you both are fortunate to have supportive partners.

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

This is an unreasonable statement that simply demonises one group.

If there is no water, there is no fish, if there is no fish there are no brida. Same goes with marriage too. Women marry into what they don't have, or what they can get better than what they already have.
Men marry to expand family.

This is evolution. There is no right or wrong here.
A reasonable system that got corrupted by feminism that made this into a business deal.

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

There is no attempt to demonise a group here.

It is more about being more supportive with each other and not just blindly doing comparison or having unrealistic expectations in the social media era.

BubblyWaffle
BubblyWaffle

I wouldn’t agree with this statement - “If there is no water, there is no fish, if there is no fish there are no brida. Same goes with marriage too. Women marry into what they don’t have, or what they can get better than what they already have. Men marry to expand family” - since the society has evolved a lot today. Couples are choosing to be childfree and women are choosing men with similar financial stability or similar financial goals. While this is mostly an urban phenomenon, we can’t still stereotype.

GroovyPotato
GroovyPotato
EY6mo

Me and my boyfriend are going to marry next year..I am supporting my parents and he is the sole earner of his family and supporting his parents even if he is a manager today we both earn same as I am in tech field and he is in adops field and I know in India there's not much opportunities for adops and i started liking him because how he treated me and the way he supports me in all my decisions ... people do exist like us but in today's world most of the people go for something better...

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

More power to you and you both are very fortunate to have got such supportive partners respectively.

FluffyMochi
FluffyMochi

Baap bada na bhaiya ladkiyon ke liye matter kerta hai rupaiya bhale tum mote ho sawle ho bus paise bhute hai toh man jayegi shaadi ke liye 😁😁😁😁

FluffyMochi
FluffyMochi

Mere ek dost ki shaadi ki baat chalti rahti woh batata hai ladki kudh kaam ya kuch bhi na kama rhi ho per expectations ghar car 20lacs/30lacs lpa walo ki hai 😂😂😂😂

SqueakyPickle
SqueakyPickle
Student5mo

I wish so too.And also i think both the partners must be capable and deserve each other.Women should also be financially independent so to judge men and have no issues with their standards or demands coz they might be having it too.Anyways support and trust is what that's essential to live a long happy life.Nevermind,have a good day to those reading it

DerpyBiscuit
DerpyBiscuit
TCS5mo

Can it be normalize to do house hold work for men as if they are not working , do they do house hold work like women do normally?

PerkyDumpling
PerkyDumpling
TCS5mo

This has been followed in western countries from many years - Get Rich together !

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