Misc16mo
by BubblyNuggetAndroid Engineer
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Partnership is about bringing out the best of one another and being supportive in the journey
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DancingCoconut
Stealth21d
I married my partner when we both werenât earning much(parents are well-off). Went through thick and thin of life. We have grown together, being each otherâs side.
Coming to the present, we have bought a home together 1.5 years back in Gurgaon and working towards our career goals earning decentâ„ïž
ZoomyHamster
Stealth20d
I married my husband solely because of how independent he was. At the time (5 years ago) his annual income was only 5 lpa, mine was 10lpa.
Both of us come from difficult backgrounds. Have been on our own since graduation, never went to parents for money- we have supported ourselves for the longest time ever.
Since he said he has had a similar struggle, it struck a cord with me. He is one of the most understanding and empathetic men I have met. We both support our families (families are not well to do and need our support to function)
Itâs been 5 years of marriage, we have a child- second on the way- recently got a small apartment on BLR and planning to get my in-laws to live with us by next year.
We have grown together as individuals in personal and professional lives! As of today, he earns more than me and I have had the privilege to sit back and relax during my second pregnancy despite the home loan. He is supporting us and both our families.
GroovyBanana
CosmicRaccoon
Laid-off21d
My wife wasnât working by when we got married supported her for competitive exams during the first 2 years post marriage, after which she got a great job. I got laid off multiple times, and was jobless for a year she supported me during that time and our family.
Itâs very hard to get partners who support each other at worst time. That relationship is meant to for lifelong
ZippySushi
Freelancer21d
You are truly a gentleman bro. You supported your wife and your wife supported when you got laid off. That's what marriage is all about. On the other hand, I've seen guys who want their partner should earn high package just like them, giving high weightage to looks, rather than looking actual qualities like supporting, love and care.
QuirkyPretzel
Stealth21d
Awesome, you both are fortunate to have supportive partners.
CosmicLlama
Freelancer21d
This is an unreasonable statement that simply demonises one group.
If there is no water, there is no fish, if there is no fish there are no brida. Same goes with marriage too. Women marry into what they don't have, or what they can get better than what they already have.
Men marry to expand family.
This is evolution. There is no right or wrong here.
A reasonable system that got corrupted by feminism that made this into a business deal.
QuirkyPretzel
Stealth21d
There is no attempt to demonise a group here.
It is more about being more supportive with each other and not just blindly doing comparison or having unrealistic expectations in the social media era.
BubblyWaffle
Stealth21d
I wouldnât agree with this statement - âIf there is no water, there is no fish, if there is no fish there are no brida. Same goes with marriage too. Women marry into what they donât have, or what they can get better than what they already have. Men marry to expand familyâ - since the society has evolved a lot today. Couples are choosing to be childfree and women are choosing men with similar financial stability or similar financial goals. While this is mostly an urban phenomenon, we canât still stereotype.
GroovyPotato
EY6d
Me and my boyfriend are going to marry next year..I am supporting my parents and he is the sole earner of his family and supporting his parents even if he is a manager today we both earn same as I am in tech field and he is in adops field and I know in India there's not much opportunities for adops and i started liking him because how he treated me and the way he supports me in all my decisions ... people do exist like us but in today's world most of the people go for something better...
QuirkyPretzel
Stealth6d
More power to you and you both are very fortunate to have got such supportive partners respectively.
SnoozyPotato
Apple6d
Cap 𧹠and insane cope
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