
Partner isn’t isn’t inclined towards growth
I am someone who considers professional compatibility in a relationship a lot, if we’re not driving each other for raising the bar or constantly trying to get better at things then it’s not going to cut out for me.
My partner is someone who’s really kind and sweet, there are a both good and bad, but I consider these as basic companionship qualities one should have. I appreciate them a lot nonetheless.
Now here I’m failing to see us going forward as I don’t see her trying or giving her bare minimum for her growth or career. It’s been long since she’s trying for a job and I’ve tried supporting as as much is could, but it doesn’t work. She does for a while, then stops, it’s just a loop to nowhere.
I want to put most of my time in building or learning together, but I’m not getting that space or support.
I’ve talked to her and expecting a change is a big ask.
This might sounding very stoic or apathetic, but I’m not sure what to do here.
We both are 24yo fyi.
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She might be facing mild depression. Check with her once if anything is stressing her out.

Yes going On a small vacation and talking to her will Definitely help.

She could be, I’ve been supportive of her for months, no pressure, do things at her own pace.
I don’t know how else I can help her, I’m lost.
She doesn’t feel good about it either. I’ve talked

She could be and she is in are two different things a therapist might help.

