Parents never helped nor helping now when I need them most.
I have been a good son. I do everything for the family. I am the one spending all money, taking care of all the expenses since I started making money. My father has lots of money. I asked for some as I need it now and my money is stuck. He straight away refused and got angry. This amount is not a very big deal for him. And I am ok with that just that it will extend my struggles a lot. But he took it wrong way. Telling relatives that I want all his money and after getting that I will leave him on road. Such stupidity. I should be the angry one because he is not helping when I need him. But he is creating a big drama out of it. Telling everyone that I am behind his property and will leave them. I seriously dont understand why? I have been a good son. I have increased the property only. Since then they started acting weird. Giving me unnecessary headache and mental trauma. I tried talking things out which just make it worst. I WILL NEVER WILL DO THIS TO MY SON EVER.
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So you are the one doing all the expenses but your father has the money and you need it now. A very contradictory statement bro. Think through it why they don't want to give it to you, maybe they don't like where you will spend that 10 lakhs. You can only inherit the money if its inherited if its earned by your parents then its their wish whatever they want to do with it.
I know its his money, he inherited some earned some himself. I asked for a HELP. I was going to invest. I have the money but I need 10 lac more. I also have properties but it does not make sense to sell something worth way more and pay taxes on it and loose the long term benefits. Its a simple ask which he is making big deal out of it. Wouldn't you help your kid? I am not child I am 37 years old man. I know what I am doing.
Generally the bias takes place when you have many members in a family. I am sure you have siblings. How many siblings do you have and what is your position in your family? I understand what you are going through but one thing is every parent when they are nearing old age they will have an insecurity somewhere in mind and they think only their savings are the support in old age. When no money, nobody will take care of them. But maybe I'm wrong in your case. Maybe some other reason.
Dude they have chores of rupees plus properties worth crores of rupees. Helping me with 10 lack is nothing for them. I have one sister who is married. My friends are ready to help when they have lot to loose but my parents won't help me. I have accepted this fact but it hurts me a lot. How can someone be so cruel to their own Son
I am in the same boat brother please take care of yourself.
Chill mate. Hote rahta hai..!