Parents asking to marry again
Am currently 29 yrs, but unfortunately got separated within one year of marriage. Am a single child and my parents are worried about my future and want me to settle down again. I have tried talking to few girls on dating apps but as soon as i tell about my past they either seem to ignore or block. How difficult is to approach a girl after divorce? Are we not supposed to live again? Whats your opinion? Am i doing anything wrong by revealing my truth too soon or should I approach in some other way?
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The real question is if you even want to get married again right now. If you're unsure, no strategy will fix that.
Being divorced at 29 is not a failure. The ones who block you are just filtering themselves out. Don't hide your past, but you don't need to lead with it either. You can try sharing it calmly when things get serious.
Take time to process what you've learned. Don't remarry just because of pressure.
Thats the approach i think is the best
I never needed a dating app, but is there no place to say - divorced ? That way only someone who has an open mind or is looking for a divorcee will approach you.
It is blunt but no one would go for a divorced person unless you are absolutely charming, rich and good looking or they have similar or some issues at their end as well... Sorry but that's Indian society...
Leave it bro. There are people who aren't even married once till 30, and you're trying for the second time by 29....give yourself some time to be sure of it.
god save your future wife. a 29 year old is marrying 2nd time 'just bcs his parents want it'
why aren't you looking for divorced women? don't try to be oversmart
First fix your mental health and outlook towards relationships. Marriage is just 2 week occasion. It’s difficult to pacify parents in such cases so tell me you are talking to few ppl in background and will involve them only when you feel good to go. And as for yourself you. Instead of looking on apps go to events, single match making mixers, or even sites which have profiles specifically for remarriage. But all these effort you can give once you have a clear head on starting a life with someone again
Stay hopeful and positive. Its an incident and just move on with learnings taking away the root causes which led to separation.
Dating apps wont work imo... probability is very low to get a "good" imo.
May be AM candidates to explore.
