ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Parents asking to marry again

Am currently 29 yrs, but unfortunately got separated within one year of marriage. Am a single child and my parents are worried about my future and want me to settle down again. I have tried talking to few girls on dating apps but as soon as i tell about my past they either seem to ignore or block. How difficult is to approach a girl after divorce? Are we not supposed to live again? Whats your opinion? Am i doing anything wrong by revealing my truth too soon or should I approach in some other way?

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JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

There are many divorcee girls out there, why are you intent on marrying unmarried girl only!

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Where did i mention about the type of girl??

BubblyQuokka
BubblyQuokka

The real question is if you even want to get married again right now. If you're unsure, no strategy will fix that.

Being divorced at 29 is not a failure. The ones who block you are just filtering themselves out. Don't hide your past, but you don't need to lead with it either. You can try sharing it calmly when things get serious.

Take time to process what you've learned. Don't remarry just because of pressure.

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Thats the approach i think is the best

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Stay hopeful and positive. Its an incident and just move on with learnings taking away the root causes which led to separation.

Dating apps wont work imo... probability is very low to get a "good" imo.

May be AM candidates to explore.

WigglySushi
WigglySushi

Why did you guys separate?

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Not the topic here

WigglyPanda
WigglyPanda

Leave it bro. There are people who aren't even married once till 30, and you're trying for the second time by 29....give yourself some time to be sure of it.

GoofyCupcake
GoofyCupcake

Do you want to get married?

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Am not so sure currently

MagicalMarshmallow
MagicalMarshmallow

You paid alimony?

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato

Lack of clarity(of everything)leads to this.

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