(Only Men) I have been dating this woman in my ODC since the past 3 years. I know that corporate dating isnt advisable but we belong to different teams and sometimes things just click. (Contd. Below)
I used to love and respect her as if she was an inherent part of me. I had fought with the manager once regarding leaves so have been assigned a C Band. She started to tell me that they might put me into PIP and your future doesnt look promising. I was pretty sad.
Things started to get even worse when I saw her touching some other guy (pretty personally), that too in front of me.
I was crestfallen when she pinged me that she doesnt see any merit in me and doesnt want me around anymore.
Why is it so easy for women to assume that men have no FCKING FEELINGS?
I FEEL DEPRESSED. I HAD GIVEN IT ALL. I ZONE OUT WHILE WORKING AND HAVE NOT CONTRIBUTED ANYTHING SUBSTANTIAL SINCE THE LAST 5 DAYS TO THE TEAM. I KEEP PUSHING DEADLINES AS I CANT FOCUS.
I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS. I WISH WE WERE STRANGERS.
BEING KIND IS A CURSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes in life whatever happens happens for a reason.Mostly good, some bad & few for ugly reasons. In this case maybe in the long term it could have been even worse for you, therefore you are getting a chance much quickly to understand what u need to do. I know it's tough at this time to focus on anything productive or even job work. But let's focus a bit & do these things- 1)Clearly communicate with her that even if she wants to continue dating or not. 2) If she wants to continue explain her properly what you expect her to behave & act whether in front or in your back. 3)Sorry being the bearer of bad news but it's better in this condition to look forward instead of back.I can sense how deeply committed u are but I don't think same is getting reciprocated. 4) If possible take some time off.do whatever activity makes u happy. Don't rush into another relationship quickly.Take things slow.dont worry you"ll be ok.😎
Chote, bahut phudu si cheese pe tu apna dimaag kharaab kar raha hai. Yeh pyaar nahi, zid hai tere. Rejection se deal karna seekh le. Aaj bandhi ne laat maari hai, kal naukri maar sakti hai. Pehle khud ko pyaar karna seekh le. Jab khud se pyaar hoga tab tere ko realize hoga ki she was not worthy. If you go by me, acha huva, you came to the reality before she left you high and dry. Chite dimaag lagha, upskill, job change kar, dost banah, aur pyaar tab karna jab koi tere kadar kare.
Very candid advice. Thanks bhai.
Bhai thoda zone se bahar nikalkar ao... Atleast 3 4 days ka solo trip ya dost yaro ke sath thoda ho ao... refresh and reboot is must for us as corporate employees... specially asi situation ke baad it's mandatory
I'm sure it's easy to say leave and move on...but ultimately you should ! because what I see here is all she is expecting in you is wealth, Its definitely not bad! Coz world is so competitive but don't break your head for that focus on your career progression! at the end time heals and whatever happens is for good. Stay blessed and get divert yourself because world is do big, good things will come to your way. GOOD LUCK
