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So, here’s the deal …..I’m already in a relationship, but my parents have no clue yet. Meanwhile, my family seems to have made “arranged marriage” their new fulltime mission….To keep things peaceful at home, I’ve talked to a few of the guys they handpicked for me
And wow, what an experience. Some of these “potential grooms” act like I’ve proposed to them the second I reply to a message. I mean, calm down …..I’m just being polite, not signing a lifelong contract…
The funniest part? Even when I clearly show zero interest…..no enthusiasm in texts, dry replies, borderline ignoring their calls…..they still keep hovering like I’m some rare endangered species they’ve been sent to rescue…..
Seriously, what is it with some of these guys? Is basic social awareness too much to ask?
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Those guys are unaware of first principles. Anyway I wish destiny should never meet me a girl like you even in hell.
"Handpicked".. Goddamn.
Why do guys always get so emotional rather than thinking rationally? Is this why people from other countries call us emotional fools?
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I don't understand which type of relationship is this, where you can't tell your parents, simply disclose to your parents to avoid nonsense talk within AM setup
I don’t want to hurt my parents
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I feel the guy you are with got lucky mam. Being loyal is something I really appreciate but I don't think you are doing it right to the guys you are talking to via am. Please think from their perspective too, not advising anything as it's your personal life but just wrote what I felt.
True…that’s the reason why I am not trying to completely ignore someone
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Clown mentality, why even getting into conversation with them in first place, have some guts and tell your parents about your relation, is it that difficult?
Yes it’s too difficult…everyone has their own sets of challenges…
Ask your boyfriend to create marriage profile, forward that to your parents,then show all the interest to your bf, too many ways if you think like sane person
Didi ko love bhi chahiye aur parents ko NO bolna bhi nahi hai
Just imagine your sister wants to marry a guy who you don’t like…would you be happy letting your sister get married to such a person? In my case … my parents don’t approve inter caste marriage.. you need to understand someone’s situation before spilling hate…
Don’t jump to unnecessary conclusions… someday you might also need support and some jerks on internet would spill hate in the same manner you are spilling it..
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Woman to woman - just tell your parents you're with someone. Why waste your time and your parents time and the matchmakers' time and these boys and their family's time? Rip the bandaid off unless this is is some inter religious stuff, that stuff needs to be handled carefully.
It’s not that simple… in our society… men and women go through different set of challenges… it’s not that easy…you can’t just hurt your parents like that…
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Not just you, to all who engage in such interactions: loyalty is ultimately a conscious choice. If one is already committed, it would be more respectful to either decline AM profiles outright or be transparent about your situation early in the conversation. This consideration extends not only to the person being spoken to, but also to parents who invest their time and effort with sincere intentions.
If there is no genuine interest in pursuing anything through AM, it’s worth reflecting on why a particular approach felt offensive to you.. your actions may have simply been perceived as initial hesitation, which is quite common in early conversations..
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If you can get even half of the courage and confess to your parents that you already warming up someone else's bed then maybe you won't he required to waste someone else's time.. You are an equally entitled girl shaming guys here... If they are so egoistic then you are equally coward..
Why are tou getting so triggered? Are you also the kind of guy I have mentioned in the post?
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Bhai....your parents want arrange marriage no....cool...try doing this...create your and your partner's profile on any trusted matrimony app...like each other's profile...tell your parents...that you like this profile...and would like to take it forward...arrange ka arrange and love marriage ka love marriage.
That’s a good suggestion… but not very practical…because my parents are looking for someone from our community … they don’t support inter caste marriages