I have 3 years of relationship and it's been a year now I am convincing my gf for marriage but she was delaying it with lame reason so now my parents force me to arrange marriage and I have done roka. Now my gf is saying her parents are convinced.. what to do now? Ps: it was a healthy relationship. and just because of parent health I have to make a decision in a hurry
Check both girls kundli and then decide
27 points are matching with gf and 17 with the arranged marriage girl. What reason should I give to broke?
Tf? Is this even a serious suggestion.
You want to have the cake and eat it too.... 3 lives are now entangled... and this is place you turn to for advice 🤨
Exactly. Playing with people's lives
Why did you do roka if you haven't broke up with your gf !
We broke up after that only I did roka, but now she is saying I have convinced and now they are ready.
Really pathetic and Sinister peoples
See if you both were in relationship chalo theek hai u broke up at the of roka but why man why u just kept on talking to that arrange marriage girl.. don't u think u both are so responsible for her ..when u were not decided that u have to completely go with other choice then us bich me roka kaise karlia ?
Man and woman like u needs some baddie treatments ...jab tumhre mindset me decide hi nhi tha tumne completely move on kiya hi nhi to shadi kaise karhe the dusre se or ab usse roka todoge waah..Due to such kind of peoples innocent and emotional people suffers...
As u mentioned in previous comments that she is non working...these things u must be told earlier than why u kept on measuring her worth on her occupation basis...
I'm totally traumatized while reading this post ..I'm not that kind of person who becomes angry easily but these things makes me so triggered..
Dont break up in a hurry see who understands you better create some situation and observe their reactions. Marry the one who you love more because it’s your life. Would you have married your gf if situation was vice versa?
If the situation was reversed I would have not given hope to her of marriage. I don't understand if your family is against love marriage then why!!!!!!!!!!
What is roka?
When you informed your gf about your roka she was fully aware that she will loose you but she didn't take a step then. That shows what's your value in her eyes. If she would have cherished the relationship she would have spoken to her parents before your roka. Now you want to break your roka for your gf. Do you know the pain of a girl when her roka is called off, her parents her relatives all are involved. It won't be wise to break your roka for someone who was coward to take a stand for you at the right time. Nothing against your gf she might be a great person but thats my unbiased suggestion to you.
I totally agree with your point, but only the point why now I am confused is now the arranged marriage girl is not ready to settle in Mumbai as at a start I said I will settle in Pune but due to work policy I have to spend some time in mumbai than only I will be able to shift and she is firm on it. Which makes me think of giving a chance to gf
Don't you think it'll be wrong
Aapne roka kr liya ab todoge to us ldki ke sath kitta galat hoga
Upr se hmare indian society me log iske baad jldi consider bhi ni krenge us ldki ko
Idk agr aapki gf itti serious thi to unko phle hi baat krna chaiye tha apni family se
I think you should do arrange marriage now.
May be yahi best ho apke liye. Rest is your decision
I know it will be wrong and it will hunt her for the rest of life, but after speaking with arrange marriage girl for 3 month she is not ready to shift to Mumbai although she is not working, she said I said yes just coz you said I will settle in Pune.
Whosoever you like more. It is a hard decision now, later it will be impossible decision. If you are chasing ur dream, anybody will agree.
PS: check karlena agar woh palati hai kya ;)
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