Need suggestions
I got married, arranged marriage recently, since then husband always disrespects my family in one or other way, when I confront, he acts nice, and whenever we have some disagreements he disrespects my mom badly, recently we had a huge fight infront of my family and his family, where he charged with his hands towards my mom, which I could not digest, I charged same way towards him, for which his family is blaming me that I am not respecting him and they never seen anyone such way, suddenly my job and earnings becomes a problem. I left him one month ago, no contact from him or his family. He always discusses my mistakes never his, which makes me a villain, what's this type of behaviour do these type of people ever change, what should I do??
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You need to check if your mom is the root cause here. Sometime, girls feel there is no mistake of her parents, but more often than not, there is some kind of thing that bothers husbands. Keep your mom in check or your life might get ruined.
Bro, she never talks to him, she talks only when I ask to her talk, and he is the most
Unsocialisable person you can ever meet, he targets her because she is weak link in my family as there are no men in my family to defend her, I was there when the action unwinded,
No one can talk to him, he even lacks basic hi, how are you manners
Are you obligated to stay with him? Are you in love with him? Do u see having kids with him ? If no - then leave , take good alimony and get rid of this bastard ! Respect is minimum requirement in a relationship
Not obligated, I just don't want to leave thr life because of misunderstanding him, I just want clarity what is bothering him, what is the issue, he never communicates issues openly, that is one of the reasons for our fights
Everything is tolerable except raising hands on elders. You can hate elders, talk shit on their face. But raising hands on anyone for that matter feels problematic to me. My friend is going through similar issue but it's gender reverse. She scrached his father's face and arms with her nails. He will be divorcing her.
yeah, even I could not digest that thing, and the funny part is, for his family I am the one who is wrong for reacting to his behaviour..
Go to marriage counsellor you both may need help , raising hand may be just to assert control by doing something outrageous, you did the same by raising hand towards him . Both not acceptable acts .
What I did is wrong, I accept it, even I am ready to ask sorry, but what I want is the realisation from his side, and assurance it should not happen again, he said few hurtful things to me along with his aunt, which I could not digest
Just leave him if you feel toxic around him..
Don't think much just prioritize yourself!!
He wants everything according to his mom's wishes, eventhough we live alone, that's kind of frustrating, he acts nice when we are alone, not sure what is this type of behaviour, his family defends him as he is the good guy in this world and they don't even listen to my issues and correct him
I am not sure whether he wants please his mom even after marriage or he wants to live a life with me
Arrange marriage are so creepy man 🤮
Kuch aisa ho jata hai..! Dont ruin the relationship make a call and speak to him.